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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    I'm not just saying it. But yeah she is worth it.

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    I don't mean to sound pessimistic because I usually like to use all options available, but she sounds done my friend. You have to release control to gain control. Understand that there are just some things you can't control, like another person. You can only influence them.

    It would be different if she said this in the heat of the moment, but she's still preaching it and repeating herself. Thats a pretty big hint.

    I know it may feel like a failure since she did the dumping instead of you, but it's not. Its an experience. An experience you can apply to your next relationship. Nonetheless if you have any chance of winning her back then you should still back off.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    The thing is her facebook status still says shes in a relationship with me, i dont know if thats just till tomorrow. Should i end it first?

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    Honestly if you still got a shot I think you should behave as if she isn't going anywhere and she is just being dramatic. Such as "Ugh babe come on. I don't like talking to you when you get like this. I'll just talk to you later when you feel better. We gotta sort some things out when you do." There is a good chance she will want to know what you are talking about NOW. This is a good time to start talking about something unrelated to the breakup.

    Don't feed into the idea of a breakup. Downplay it like she is just being emotional and brush it off. Start talking about other things.

    Don Draper from MadMen said, "If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation." If she willingly talks about something else then it's a good sign she wasn't serious about her decision.

    If you play this card and she is STILL adamant about a breakup then there isn't much else you can do, but give her space and let her sort things out on her own about what she wants.
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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    I agree with BatMan, if i had know this before i might keep my ex ..

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    Yeah I'll do that batman

    She is known with her friends as being stubborn and she is very stubborn she would end the relationship due to it. Anyway i can make a stubborn person open their mind. Using NLP patterns or whatever?

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    You might, but good luck finding someone to teach you. Nobody on this site really uses NLP to my knowledge. In my mind it's a pretty outdated technique.

    Your best bet is to stay nonresponsive, act like you are unaffected by her leaving. You need to take up the Mindset that she's great, but you're better. You can get someone just as great as her if not better. Don't be needy.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    To my knowledge NLP is highly debated. Mostly because it requires a specific type of woman. One who is touch with her emotions and comfortable with her sexuality. Best to just disregard it. Although I could totally be wrong.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    She is still a bit angry. Any tips before I go to meet her. how I can get her out a bad mood in to a good more playful one? So basically to just lighten the mood.

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    Default Re: Think I've been bf destroyed/Losing value.

    Don't fall into her bad mood. Just be slightly dismissive of it and keep up positive energy. Be smiling and laughing and teasing and if she says something bitchy or tries to bring you down to her energy level just brush it off and keep right on going. Eventually she'll cheer up too.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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