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    Default Things for me right now

    Hey guys. I've seen a few of Cody's posts on here about him being in a rut mentally and how you all have come together and helped him out. I've tried to throw in some advice when I could. Well, it's my turn to talk about the place I'm in. And it's not too good, to be honest.

    Tonight, I was excited to go out, just like any other night. So far this year I've had a perfect streak for going out. I've always ended up hooking up with a girl at some point. (Just some background, I'm in college and in a fraternity. I'm underage but bars are 19+ on my campus.) Anyways, I went to the house for a little pregaming before heading out. I was supposed to go out in a big group but most of the people flaked last minute so it ended up being just one guy and me going out. I honestly thought it would be better because we could just wing for each other the whole night. I don't think this guy really knows about PUA but he talks about getting girls all the time so I figured it would be a good night. Anyways, long story short, I tried setting him up in a few sets and he never really went with it. And he only opened two sets, both of them with someone he already knew. So it was kind of a bad night. I ended up with two n-closes but that was it. Normally with a n-close I also get a k-close at least, but something was off today and I don't know what. My game was tight, girls were enjoying talking with me, but it just wasn't happening for me. So there goes my perfect streak.

    This isn't really what got me down though. The two numbers I got were from HB9s so I was happy with that. But there just wasn't any gratification from it. Normally when I get a number it just boosts my ego, I feel untouchable. Not tonight. I didn't feel any different. Then After the bars closed and when I was heading home, I called up my girl best friend on campus to see if she wanted to meet up (we dated at the beginning of the year and did sleep together so there were some strong feelings but we fell back into being just friends, and honestly I'm fine with it). She answers and tells me she's going over to a guy's place that she's been seeing. This is really what pushed me over the edge. As happy as I am being really close friends with her, I still have some strong feelings for her. And she started dating this guy two days after we ended things because she "didn't want anything serious." I tried to explain to her I didn't want that either but she wasn't listening. I don't want to be with her anymore, I don't have any desire of that. It just hurts that she's seeing him, ya know?

    So to sum things up, I'm at the point where the girl I want is unattainable and I don't have any desire to really pursue it as well as I don't get any gratification from PU anymore. In the past year I've become basically addicted to it, thinking about how quick I could n-close, k-close, and f-close basically every girl I saw. I'm not afraid to approach any set, no matter what. I just don't get the same rush that I used to.

    If anyone has any tips on how to solve this, please, send them my way. It would be greatly appreciated. I just want the same rush that I used to get whenever I was gaming an HB9 or HB10. I miss it, a lot.

    Peace out everyone, hope you all had a better night than me.

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    Default Re: Things for me right now

    You arrogant mofo!

    Lol teasing.

    Sounds like you're at the end of one phase and ready for another. If that's the case then I think you should look into an LTR.

    Now THATS a challenge. You have to do alot of things that are counter intuitive to what PUA teaches and all without becoming beta. (Ex: Talking about her feelings. Sometimes even
    your feelings. Telling her mushy gushy stuff.)

    Then when your 21 you can go to REAL bars and clubs where things are distinctly different. This ain't college anymore and you can't do certain things. Plus women are a bit more difficult than in college. Enjoy your journey my friend.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Things for me right now

    I'm not an arrogant mofo, I swear! Haha thanks for the reply though man. I don't want a serious relationship, but I am looking for something more steady with someone. Just a girl to casually date while still going out. Unfortunately, the girls that want this with me I'm not interested in and the girls I want this with are not interested in me.

    The way I'm trying to look at this is just a rut that I'm in that I just need to push through. Hopefully it works. I am looking forward to going to the "real" bars and such once I'm older. Half the girls here are still stuck in high school with their cliques and such.

    Anyways, thanks for the advice, I'll keep my head up and keep pushing through.

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    Default Re: Things for me right now

    Well really without knowing the exact emotions you are going through, I can't help too much, but I have to deal with this about every rejection where I really like a girl. It's cool though, I've gotten it down to a couple days tops I'm down.

    Sounds goofy, but let the universe pull you out. Think about it. You are sitting there all depressed and what not, lonely no one around, then boom your friends start hitting you up to hang. Or you get that random text from that girl you used to sleep with just wondering how you have been doing.

    My advice, pay attention, when you are down the universe has a way of showing you that you are cared about. And for the love of god take a break from pickup for a while. When you go out don't feel the need to go open up sets and what not, just talk to people and have a good time. If you get approached, or want to get a girls number because you actually like her, then do it otherwise don't just take her number because you want to add a notch on your belt.

    You have lost yourself in the midst of honing your game. The same thing happened to me, and I ended up getting out of that rut (which lasted 3 months) by bagging twins!


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