Re: drinking, a dlv? it was for me
Real sorry that happened man. AMOGs suck lol. I don't encounter it too much myself, but my usual thing is to befriend them by first complimenting them then teasing them aftwards. However it seems that they know you already and are giving you hoops (like you said) and are pressuring you to jump through them. I would recommend going back to Mystery Method Hoop Theory.
If someone presents you with a hoop you can do one of three things...
1. Grab the hoop from them and get them to jump through it first before you do
2. Completely ignore the hoop like it doesn't exist (my personal favorite)
3. Put up and entirely new hoop for them to jump through. Disregarding their initial hoop.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."