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    Default Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    So some background, dating this girl exclusively (as far as she knows) for a year. Im good looking and have always had natural game and have refined it with help. Now my boy here is extremely good looking. We both have success, but him more so.

    So he recently moved back to town and I must admit, my AMOG radar was rusty. I hadn't been challenged with my girl out in public and especially in my social circle for quite some time. So we pregamed with some friends at my house and he was driving to our next destination, another friends place. We walked out and said I had to sit in the back. I said bs girl in the back, and she started complaining that she had black on and would get dog hair on her. He agreed and I went to the back without realizing I just got AMOGGED completely.

    When we got to my friends place I sat down to chat with my friends. There was nowhere for my gf to sit next to me so she sat on the couch across the room. My AMOG "friend" sits next to her and puts his arm around her. I ignore it for a bit until I was done catching up, then walked over, took his arm off her, said get up, and sat down next to my chick, but the damage was done.

    A few days later she started asking questions like, "do you trust your (AMOG) friend" and saying this like "I like your friend, he seems like a really good guy." ****ing facepalm

    Obviously she is attracted. Honestly, the relationship is at its tail end anyways for other reasons, but I need to diffuse this clown so I don't get AMOGGED by him in other pursuits. He's that kind of guy. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    Basically it comes down to this:
    YOU need to make her feel like you're the greatest, most awesome guy she's ever met... and that she'd be totally crazy to cheat on you or leave you.

    Seeing as how you've been dating her for about a year, you need to focus on deep, emotional rapport.
    Keep up the little flirty stuff on a regular basis too, in order to keep the attraction fresh & exciting; but be sure you make that deep emotional connection,

    Also- do "little things" to make her feel special & appreciated.

    Examples:
    Open doors for her.

    Make her walk on the INSIDE of the sidewalk (with you closer to the curb) & explain the reason for that is because, you're looking out for her safety.

    Write little notes & put them in her car, or somewhere else you know she'll find them. (It'll make her day!!)

    Send her quick emails or texts, just to let her know you're thinking about her.

    Basically, anything to demonstrate chivalry.

    Those types of simple, little things are HUGE to a girl!!
    (And let me tell ya, the rewards you get in return are SOOOO worth it!)



    So, it's really not about having to diffuse an AMOG or anything like that.

    Just be the BEST & most amazing guy she's ever known & it won't matter if Brad Pitt decided to hit on her; she's not gonna take the bait.



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    Default Re: Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    To be honest man, I'm really done with this chick and don't have the energy with her anymore. I'm not scared of losing her, she's already out the door. I'm more interested in reasserting dominance over this guy reasserting himself into my social circle, cause if I don't, he is going to AMOG me on future prospects.

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    Default Re: Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    If you think hes gonna get her anyway don't lower yourself to fight over her. Say something to him along the lines of " thanks for taking her off my hands" with a little wink or something. And start flirting with the other girls in the group be the center of their attention. No one wants to feel like they have sloppy seconds so this will bring him down. If he try's to AMOG you with the other girls be like "lover boy your girl looks lonely over there" and block him out of the group with your body. You gotta let it be known you own the set or he'll keep doing it.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    This post has dejavu. This was my last response.

    Sucks about your situation man. First off...pick your battles. Starting off the night by stating "girls sit in back" may sound alpha, but is actually on the childish side. Alphas know WHEN to take the lead, and the answer is not ALWAYS. It's still alpha to LET someone else take the lead under your permission. Again...pick your battles, because it is 100% impossible to have your way all the time. How you handle it when it doesn't go your way defines if you are alpha or beta.

    Even though I say this, I have been a victim of similar situations. The first instinct is some desperate attempt to get the power back and makes you look AFC. Once I learned to let go of always having to be in charge, I felt a little better. Still....he sat next to your girl and put his arm around her. Total cockblock.

    The simple answer is that he does not see you as the leader of the group. I can tell you if he did, he would fear your response if he acted in a way you didn't like. Honestly, I don't have much experience in having an alpha male see me as more alpha than him if he already sees me as inferior. It's usually because they are from my past and we already have a certain dynamic.

    You need to have a sit down with him. Seriously. Tell him that his behavior is unacceptable. Don't try to convince him. Simply state your expectations. If he doesn't agree or continues his behavior, you have to cut him off. It's that simple. This is why there is only one male lion in a pride. He doesn't try to subdue the males to get under his rule, he simply kicks them out for good. I've done it before because I don't have time to butt heads with someone that doesn't respect me from the door.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Diffuse an AMOG in your social circle?

    I just had a situation similar to this. I successfully reasserted my dominance over an upstart rival AMOG in my social circle.

    This guy already had an alpha mentality, but didn't always express it appropriately. This means kicking the door to the room open and yelling what was on his mind almost every day. Dead serious. He speaks loudly, interrupts, and speaks over people while telling jokes.

    I had to tell him to cut that shit out, its rude. I did this each time he misbehaved. Then, I very subtly reminded him that I could kick his ass.

    However, it wasn't until I stole a girl away from him that his ego finally deflated around me. I didn't run spectacular game on her or anything, just disqualified her enough to get her to chase, Kino Escalation, Take Away, then power move (took off shirt, picked her up, and told him to beat it, I want privacy w/ this girl). She was giggling and feeling me, but he still didnt leave, he put on a show and said no, then lamely attempted flirting from across the room.

    The power move occurred at the opportune moment and also flaunted an asset of mine that he does not possess (muscular physique). What do you have that he doesn't? Your body, wit, wealth, etc. can serve to make him feel inferior to you. I think if you destroy his ego just once, he will bow to you in the future.

    Hope this helps, and good luck bro.


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