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Thread: Ex inviting me on vacation. NEED ADVICE

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    Default Ex inviting me on vacation. NEED ADVICE

    It seems counter productive to come to a site filled with brilliant minds dedicated to picking up women (and men?); but I have nowhere else to turn to.

    Enough of the cheesy introduction. To get to the problem, me and my ex started talking again (just texting, nothing serious), and shes invited me to go to Maui with her and her family. All expenses paid, their treat. Pretty awesome eh? The only problem is, she expects sex from me (still get frequent drunk dials) and there are definetely strings attached.

    Some backstory to possibly help, we dated throughout highschool (on and off for the entire time) and im about to graduate. The trip is a once in a lifetime, but I really don't want the extra baggage (pardon the pun).

    NEED ADVICE ASAP.

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Ex inviting me on vacation. NEED ADVICE

    A free vacation loaded with sex?? IMO you'd be crazy not to but I know how you feel about the baggage thing.

    It all depends on what YOU want. You could try friend zoning her before going that way if anything does happen you can just remind her she's in the FZ and that anything sexual is just that...sexual. If you go you're sending mixed signals no matter what and she'll chase you even harder. If it were me I would go on the free vacation, have lots of sex and when you get back tell her she's friend zoned (but then again im kind of an asshole like that)

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    Default Re: Ex inviting me on vacation. NEED ADVICE

    Yes...you dont need advice...go for the free trip, have lots of sex (if you like it with her) and when you come back...well what baggage is there??? What is she asking for marriage as part of the trip? She wants a fark buddy while she's on holiday with her parents...enjoy the ride.

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    Default Re: Ex inviting me on vacation. NEED ADVICE

    Thanks for the advice. Looks like my inner AFC had gotten the better of me Looka like I'm going to Maui 8)


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