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    Question 3 girls in friend group and attracted to all 3!! What to do??

    Ok, I am still noob but about a month ago I approach a 3-set and open with the cube. HB 8(my target),7, and 5. They luv it and we talk for about 30 minutes. Before I leave I ask if they like playing tennis and was trying to get a # close but somehow only got the 5's # =/. (I have poor closure)It's ok I added them
    on FB eventually.

    2 weeks later, I randomly cross paths with HB 8 and a friend of hers HB 8 1/2. I did very well, I chat them up 15 minutes. I leave saying we will hang out soon to HB 8 ( again poor closure I feel? need opinion)and as I'm leaving I could hear them giggling and one say" Awww, he's so precious!"

    1 week later HB 5, 7, 8(target) come up to me and says "didn't we just see you at waffle house"( in which I seen HB 5, 7, 8 1/2 earlier that day. I told them to stop stocking me =)) while I'm sitting at a coffee shop doing some Trig homework. We convo for about 25 minutes as they stood hovering over me while I sit. I bring up tennis again for some closure to hangout again. They all excited like yea yea we suck at tennis but thats cool.

    Just lastnight HB 7 and HB 8 1/2 approach me at a book store while I was doing some homework. Dudes, we chat for like an hour or more it was really cool, very proud of myself, woot! From Body Language (both had legs crossed, body pointing at me and strangely kept scooting closer and closer to me in their chairs lol) and other vibes I could tell HB 7 digs me alot. They both did, it seemed and I find both very attractive. They 19 years old haha just to throw that in there I guess! lol , they were making fun of their friend HB 8(my target a month ago) like how she acts or something. (was it a test? were they negging her maybe b/c they felt vibes that I was attracted to her initially? or perhaps she really does get on their nerves.)

    Ok, so heres my problem, I am now finding myself attracted to all 3 (HB 7, 8, 8 1/2). Should I wait to see which one of them DHVs the most and then make a move? or would that take too long and ruin
    my chances with any of them? Could I go for all 3 and flirt with them?(wouldn't think so but I don't know) How long is too long to make a move? Should I just pick one as my target and stick with that target then maybe settle for the next if she denys me? If I were to fail with one of them will that ruin chances with the other 2? Should I just go with the flow? And just out of curioustiy, would close friends have a 3-some with one another =)!?

    Ultimately, I don't want to ruin friendships, and I know they talk about me b/c HB 8 1/2 knew of me before we met from them doing the cube on her. Just a little lost and wanting to take some sort of action before its too late!!

    Srry for long post, hopefully wasn't boring. My first post...ever! so comments greatly accepted =) ty

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    Default Re: 3 girls in friend group and attracted to all 3!! What to do??

    I am glad that you are super happy. Nice attitude to have.

    Anyways, rules of thumbs, you always need some sort of direction or you will find yourself wondering in the forest.

    With that said you have the HB8.5, HB8, HB7, and HB5. Now you need to pick a target period. There is no way around it. The three some idea is okay if they initiate the idea or it comes up during a conversation but for right now you are not there yet. Question is where are you now? You did the cube which is fine. But based on your post about their reaction you are in the friend-zone. Well you not completely there yet but you are dancing on the line. What you need to do is be aggressive and target one. Women and even young women like these like assertive men (thats why younger girls dig older men). Why? Tell you the truth women do not like guys who have no direction that means he is not alpha. Women in general talk, especially younger women like these so they will gossip about you so if you keep playing games and trying to be in the middle or 'lay in the cut' they will point it out. Thats one of the strengths of women they are good at breaking things down and solving (thats why they all love drama and soaps).
    Dont focus on the comfort and not destroying the so called 'friendship'. You pick one and you go. Trust me you will gain some respect if you pick one and it doesnt work out well. But you are losing precious time building comfort and calm when the attraction sand is running low.


    You are in college, good luck with Trig by the way, you need to plan some party and focus your efforts on one target.
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    Default Re: 3 girls in friend group and attracted to all 3!! What to do??

    Wow! You sir, are awesome! Thanks for the solid advice, for real, didn't think anyone would reply haha. Aggresiveness...ok, definitly something I need to work on. I'd say my boldness is like a 4 out of 10 if not less. What would you suggest be the best way to such aggression?

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    Default Re: 3 girls in friend group and attracted to all 3!! What to do??

    First pick one from the group.

    Second you need to Isolate her some how so I would pick the girl I can best isolate. Come back here for more guidance on isolation.

    Third focus all your cube like tactics on her and do you standard PUA approach.

    Lastly, you have to be indirect or direct. Choose your poison. I like Direct Game but in your situation indirect may work. It depends on your target so when you pick your target start planning out your attack.

    Your level of aggression varies on your target and the approach you are going to use. Think about that lastly.

    How do you be aggressive? Go on youtube and search for 'Sasha day game'. In Sasha'a approach when he start conversations and build attraction and comfort you do the same. If you want her for a date limit your talking time and be direct\indirect on what you want. Flirt with her, use kino, etc.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wi11Pac3 View Post
    Wow! You sir, are awesome! Thanks for the solid advice, for real, didn't think anyone would reply haha. Aggresiveness...ok, definitly something I need to work on. I'd say my boldness is like a 4 out of 10 if not less. What would you suggest be the best way to such aggression?
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