Re: Calling Other AllStars - (Major Concern) - Tyrone1991
Im just gonna say my opinion in here (even though I am not a PUA AllStar, and some of it may have been said already, and last post was about 4 days ago )
Originally Posted by Tyrone1991
First off, you guys did and are still doing a lot for this community. You guys wrote lots of Threads on tons of different common problems AFC's usually encounter.
Since this is an open forum everyone has a say, a way of doing things and everyone has the right to post what's on their mind. Then it comes from the User asking for help to use his brain and check whether the guy giving him advice knows what he's talking about or not.
The fact that you have to worry about the one's who REALLY want to Learn are getting bad advice is just BS.. Because those who want to learn, WILL search for articles/threads which you guys wrote patiently, and in detail and read those. If they don't wanna do a little research, it really means they are not really interested in learning this stuff.. and you should not worry about them..
Also, if someone gives bad advice to another person, it will still help him because he will TRY and it's part of success.
Plus, most people who joined these forums, were once AFCs (except some few naturals) but with time and dedication they ended up being good in that subject.. it doesn't really happen by just reading and doing everything perfectly.. it happens with doing lots of mistakes, Failing, getting critiqued, embarrassed, rejected etc..
When I see someone giving bad advice to some other AFC, all I do is try and reply with a better advice and show him where he is wrong, and not show him why I am better..
One thing that I learnt from all the articles I've read and from experience, is that being an Alpha Male is not about showing off.. but helping others, increasing their value, giving them a boost of confidence they might need etc..
Also I tend to see the good in everybody, which means that even though someone Gave Bad Advice, I would still appreciate his input, because he cared about the guy who needs help, at least if he couldn't lift him up from the problem itself, he showed him he was not alone, and doesn't let him fall
The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!