Here are the PUA'S I'm learning from
1) Gambler for KINO
2) Kino Suave to get instant lay, his KINO BOMB Method
3) Neil Strauss for LTR and general PUA stuff
4) Mystery for LTR and general PUA stuff
5) Tao of Badass book -- recommended by Bill Preston.
6) REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS for ballsy approach
7) SIMPLE-PICK-UP from youtube to get over aa
8) Pandoras Box -- if i got the time for it really.
Does anybody has any guide to texting?
Basically there's tons of stuff about puas and loads of PUAS there. But I've downed it to these guys here. I dont have the time for anything else.
I have actively, seriously started following the whole PUA stuff for round about 6 months. Before that I had simply read an awful book on pua. I have had some embarrassing failures before that.
What makes me unique as a PUA is that I have a speech impediment meaning I stutter on certain words. I'm 28 and am a virgin due to religious reasons (this thought is now obsolete). Yet, I am still able to make women laugh and allow them to have fun. It also indicates that I need to master the physical game.
I have truly went out and experimented with everything I could have digested here in the forums. I realize I have alot of learn. ALOT!
I must admit there was a time where I felt really really uncomfortable with this whole PUA stuff. I thought, WTF, why do i need to learn about women? But why dont I have any gf? How come others got a gf? But I dont need to learn about woman. I will bump into a woman some day....time passed...and passed...and passed...and no woman...Then I finally realized after 3-4 years of waiting...No women is gonna fall on my lap. I need to start doing something.
I had my first HB9 gf at 27 because I was this great confident guy that does not uses women. Being a gentleman and NICE NICE NICE cocky-funny guy. Guess what? She dumped me 6 months later because I did not know nothing about KINO, escalation, how to deal with women, and basically just being an major AFC EVEN THOUGH I WAS A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESSMAN! WTF! HOW! HOW! I AM ALPHA BITHCES! Yet a failure with women....
My first gf hurt me bad. I found out, that one month before we became bf, gf, she had oral sex with my friend and also slept with another colleague of mine before she became my gf. I was SCARRED FROM THAT SHIT (because I had found this out when I was 4 months into a relationship with her). Apparently what happened was, those two guys had only been wanting to have sex with her without a commitment. So when she felt used and like a slut, she needed to hold onto an ALPHA AFC NICE GUY, to make her feel confident again, so that she could move on with another guy that knows his shit even if he aint as wealthy as me. THATS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED.
I didn't even get to sleep with her as bf gf cause I didnt know how to kiss or even sexually escalate.
It was fueled by this pain, that led me to the PUAs. I still sometimes feel a slight pinch over my first gf.
However, now I'm at a stage where I day approach any bitches I want, deal with their shit test, and try to learn as much as I can. I HAVE BEEN AN AFC FOR 27 YEARS MIND YOU.
My recent success came with a woman, HB 7, with whom I am certain I created a massive attraction. But where I failed majorly was at KINO and Kino Escalation and NON VERBAL ESCALATION. BIG MISTAKE! I would have gotten a lay that night had I known my game!
Now I need to master KINO cause KINO goes parallel with everything else you do with her.
I know I am getting better. I know I'm getting there. I am doing things I never did. I even went up to a HB10 in a night club and touched her waist as I opened. It lasted 3 minutes until her gay friend stole her from me. FUCK! haha...It was the first time I have ever spoken to a HB10, and even kinoed haha.
I also learnt its important that you have goals and inner game/focus should be so strong, because without that, you will fuck up your outer game. It goes hand - in - hand.
I hope to get my first lay soon enough and then continue to get awesome lays with HB9-10s as I move on. ^^
Cheers and Thanks.
Sam the Stuttering PUA.