It's this new thing I'm doing... and when I say 'new' I mean new for me, not new for the world.
As some of you know, I had the ridiculous thought recently about a girl I've been one-itising for:
"...fark, I think things are falling apart between me and one of the three chicks I had back to my place this weekend... Oh, wait... LOL"
And here I sit this afternoon, on the verge of texting any one of four somewhat flakey sets I've had recently. But then my frame control checked my negative thoughts - I'm not getting flaked on by these girls, I'll go NC because I'm the one that got away.
One was a kiss close who is cautious to be aroused - she'll feel her window of opportunity closing
One was a kiss close who I think had a date last night - odds are the other guy has less game, she'll be feeling buyers remorse
Two were f-closes that I quit paying attention to - I'll grant them second chances
Point is, in a solid frame, a flake is only a regretful girl who realizes you're the one who got away. Giving her a second chance is optional