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Thread: Negging LSE Girls From a Place of HV

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    Default Negging LSE Girls From a Place of HV

    I know, I know. I wrote Death to the neg. Why am I talking about negging?

    Well, I had an odd situation that made me question this. I was FB messaging this LSE chick who is also a model (paradox, I know). We've talked in person a total of one time, and that one time was an hour upon hour upon hour long battle of frame control (as you can imagine with her being a model). I said something epic on a friends status standing up for true masculinity, which caused her to PM me. Coincidentally, she had just broken up with her boyfriend within the last few days (though I hadn't noticed). We get to talking, yet it's still an awkward dynamic--I'm not sure whether or not I already have attraction or am perceived as coming from a place of higher value.

    So what does any guy do when he's not sure where he stands with a girl? I throw out a neg. More specifically I throw out what I like to call a sandwich: Compliment, constructive criticism, compliment.

    Now she takes a while to respond (I'm sure the wheels are turning in her mind to say something witty), and though it all worked out more than okay, I kind of felt like a d*ck. I didn't know she has such LSE, nor did I know she already held me in high regard. Furthermore, I got to thinking: completely apart from this one scenario, if you ARE aware of all the variables, is it still an okay thing to do? In other words,

    Does negging Low Self-Esteem girls from a place of Higher Value lower her perceived value of you?

    I know it's definitely not a dealbreaker, but as a man, a real man, I think it's an important factor to consider.

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    Default Re: Negging LSE Girls From a Place of HV

    No, your neg did what it was intended to do

    All 10s, or girls that think they are 10s, have self esteem issues. Fact is they get constant validation from guys which they need. If they don't get validation, they feel insecure
    That's exactly what a neg is supposed to do, make a girl feel insecure. If you neg too hard, you're an ass. Once she shows you insecurities and lse, you back off and be nice again

    Neg makes her insecure, she needs validation to recover, she looks for your validation specifically because you're the only one who will point out her flaws

    It sounds fine, I think you're just surprised how well it worked

    I don't use them often, but if a girl has a huge Bitch Shield up and needs to be brought down a peg I don't hesitate to do it. It's basically your job as a man, its what she wants, someone stron enough to see her core
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