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    Question complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    Is it necessary to compliment your wing to a certain degree when going out sarging?

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    Default Re: complimenting your wing

    Psych each other up -yes. But don't kiss each others @$$. Provide constructive criticism where needed and offer genuine praise where deserved
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    Default Re: complimenting your wing

    Me and My wing are eachothers wing....

    Im the PUA really and i've been training him as a wing...

    He hasn't done any studying into PUA like i have but has natural Game so i just tell him a few openers and things to look for and he does what i want....


    in return i wing him too so we compliment eachother nicely...

    Routines

    You are always looking to help ya friend out as a wing make sure he can get the girl...

    So if that means distracting the CB then thats what you do and thats whats great bout my wing is that we both tend to find a group of friends and Isolate the one we want .

    If his in a set and im not i'll come over and help him out... We got our own codes like

    The Have you Seen..

    "Have you seen sarah?" means Is the set ready for me to come in or do you want my help?

    "yes shes over there" means yeah come in when ya ready

    "No i havent " means not ready yet

    Talking about the...

    then he'll say "so where you guys just talking about the....."

    and i'll cut in and say what we were talking about becuase most of the time it'll be an opinion opener.


    What my wing does sometimes is a routine i taught him lool throws me off sometimes cause I'm not expecting him to do it and then he does....

    The She Looks Like

    "OMG who does she look like?.... Sarah Jayne"

    And then leave me with the set lol explaining who Sarah Jayne is lol.....



    Its a Great Spontaneous opener... i'll go into a quick story about a girl called SJ...

    preparation

    You gotta sit down with ya wing and go through what routines you may use and anything u may want him to do or say. I'll normally text him the night we going out and say i wanna try this new thing tonight... I call its the....

    The Money Flash

    Heres something i came up with to DVH and to show that you look after your friends... do a money flash with with ya wing

    . He'll come up to me in a set and ask to borrow some money. I'll give him a score 20 and he'll say "20???? You sure???" and i'll say "yeah dont worry bout it"

    you could do it with higher notes if you wanted but i don't wanna show off... 20 is a nice middle number.

    what is good about this is you have shown that money aint that important to you but rather your friends are more important... Also you aren't showing off because it'll be a little action and ya wing was the one who randomly asked you.\


    I got the idea for this the other day when someone asked me for a Cig while i ws in a set i said no i don't have any... Then i came up with this instead....


    hope any of this is helpful if you use these Wing Men routines and others like them out there you will compliment ya wing nicely and vice versa

    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: complimenting your wing

    My wing and I just met last night and we sat and discussed some tactics to use and definitely Money Flash works because that is truly how I am with my people, so I know the response it gets... I love the SJ drop off as well and that will be incorporated we will have to invent a story behind it though...

    Definitely a pleasure Gentlemen I appreciate you

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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    Inventing a story behind it is lying. We don't lie to women. You shouldn't have to. I have two female wings and a male wing. When I'm out with one of the girls ,one of which knows more about pick up than I do, they don't compliment me when were trying to get me a girl, they actually do the oppposite and neg me to which I ignore them to show I dnt care and that peoples opinions mean nothing Tome, amd it actually has a great effect. I've found the best way to use a wing is to use them to show alpha traits that the set might not otherwise see, while giving me social proof, provided my wings are girls they are also pivots. If I open a set without bringing a wing with me I have a false time constraint that I "have to get back to." there is a lot you Cam do with a wing that doesn't involve an imaginary friend
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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    Given this is the fashion forum, I'm guessing the Op meant if they should complement each other?
    i.e. in style?

    If that's the case I would say yes and no
    Don't wear the same thing or set out to match outfits or colors on purpose.

    Do have a similar style though. The only reason I say this is because a long time ago when I first tried this stuff out, I met up with a few guys from a forum like this. We were all very different people though and probably wouldn't have had much in common only for the Game thing... Girls picked up on that pretty easily, I was asked a few times "Are these guys REALLY your friends? You guys don't look like friends", whereas I've never been asked anything like that around my regular friends.

    Girls are good at picking up on sub-communication like that. You can play it off with a strong frame but two lcearly different guys meeting up just to "wing" without much in common or not having actually talked beforehand to have any sort of story or commonalities can come off a little odd.
    It's good to be friends with or at least get to know your wing beforehand.

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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    As far as the complementing your wings looks goes, if you do that you might come off as gay, unless your wing is a girl amd it might come off as flirting. Either way, don't do it I'm front of a girl.

    Now in response to estates post, I agree it can be beneficial to match styles for lackof a better phrase. Tried it last week amd it worked well, however if you don't match your wing it can be beneficial as well because you will appeal to a more broad spectrum of targets. I always look good when I go out, armani coat, button up, clean hair and nice pants. My old wing didn't give a fuck what he looked like and a lot of girls like that for some reason, shows he's not there for women. Lets them relax, whatever else, but for everybody else, Theres me.

    Now my new wing dresses the same but the guy looks like a boss, dress the same but he's ripped and I'm not. We match styles though and it works better for approaching the classier two sets amd three sets, you kinda get what I mean?
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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    Yeah, I'd agree with Dalton.

    It really doesn't matter so much. I mean, if you go out with your "regular" friends, do you discuss what you're wearing before? Hell No!

    But they are your friends and you all gravitate towards the same type of places so you probably just "look" like friends, I doubt one dresses as Barney Stinson and the other as a stage magician, but even if they do. It's more about The Vibe people give off.

    I think the weird thing about PUA winging can often be how guys meet from a forum, chat for 5 minutes "Direct or Indirect, what do you prefer Bro?", then they go their seperate ways in the bar, its sort of hard to give off the vibe that your friends, which in turn... looks a bit weird.

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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    Lol. I see. "Compliment" as in "complentary styles" xD I thought you meant like "to pay a compliment" my bad haha.

    These ^ guys got it.
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    Default Re: complimenting your wing, is it necessary?

    I know I didn't make it clear because that's what I'm talking about, but just so happen to get good info from both aspects...

    I believe there should be common Style, just so happens that when we met, our style is similar but not the same... And matching? Hmmm... Funny because I invited my wing to a function where my Org. will all have on Red Shirts and black pants which I told him to do as well... When actually a duo matching I think is kinda Gay

    As far as lying goes, there are openers that are blatant lies and your right I personally don't like it and last nite was my first night using actual PUA forum and Game tactics... I believe in being me and I'm comfortable being Natural, this is just an experiment to grow and incorporate some of these maneuvers in my life...

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