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Thread: Need a little advice to stop being an AFC

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    Default Need a little advice to stop being an AFC

    Alright, so I've been in the game for a little over 4 months or so. I took the advice of countless PUAs, i discovered the friend-zone system on my own. Worked on how to get out. Point is, i know my game there works.

    In the last 4 months I've gone over sooo much theory its not even funny. I know the rules like the back of my hand. I know that it works and will probably always work. Why the hell do i still have this AFC screaming in my mind? How do i get rid of it? Just give it time? Or will they always be there?

    I know that the thoughts are irrational and illogical. But i feel like this is the last step i really need to take off. They have been slowly going away, but i was hoping to know what some of the more experienced puas did to help them.

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    Default Re: Need a little advice to stop being an AFC

    Lol, so an admin added words to my topic xD which i feel kind of answered my question. All i have to do is keep going. And sooner or later it'll be pounded out of my mind through experience. Got it! Thanks for the help =D

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    Default Re: Need a little advice to stop being an AFC

    I had some paralyzing (AFC-style) aa last night (it's almost becoming part of my night game process: (1) arrive, (2) do a lap, (3) hide in the bathroom, (4) sulk, (5) open, (6) sarge like mad. But that's just me.
    Here's the FR

    I also used to play drums. Sometimes I'd injur my hands playing sports (dodgeball) and would have to play a show before my hand could heal and completely get over the injury.

    Point being, sometimes it's not about getting over it, it's about getting used to it - going ahead and sarging with AA and AFC thoughts. Alter your behavior and your beliefs will follow.
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    Default Re: Need a little advice to stop being an AFC

    Yea, that's what I figured. I guess I just have to keep working through it and trust my game will take me where I want to be. It always has since I've learned, idk why i still even let the thoughts cross my mind. I don't have too much aa, but it's more a hard time keeping my value high. I'm just going to write out rules for myself so when the AFC starts screaming i can just be like, "No! It's written right there!" Lmao.


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