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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    I suppose. I would jsut be worried Id be doing it wrong. Also, im quite conditioned to care about what people think of me and have peoples acceptance
    Hyp has some good points. peacocking is simply to make you stand out. The weirder the better. A lady won't look at you as being weird ( unless you wear a Halloween mask when it's not Halloween lol) but they would rather see you as interesting and someone who isn't afraid of being different. Peacocking done in the right way can be work in your favor. You will find that ladies will open you so the pressure isn't always on you.

    You need to get out of the Mindset of worrying what others think of you. If they can't accept you because you do not conform to the norms of society then frankly tell them to fark themselves.

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    Hyp has some good points. peacocking is simply to make you stand out. The weirder the better. A lady won't look at you as being weird ( unless you wear a Halloween mask when it's not Halloween lol) but they would rather see you as interesting and someone who isn't afraid of being different. Peacocking done in the right way can be work in your favor. You will find that ladies will open you so the pressure isn't always on you.

    You need to get out of the Mindset of worrying what others think of you. If they can't accept you because you do not conform to the norms of society then frankly tell them to fark themselves.
    Yeah, but its hard to go against majority. I mean, I honestly never had anyone speak ill of me, so maybe I'm being overly paranoid.

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    Ok, lets try this one more time. Tell me what you think? Please be brutaly honest.
    You want it and you're going to get it. I wouldn't have done it any other way if you hadn't asked, anyways.



    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    Im also worried that the physical parts of my face are going to hurt me. I never really like the way my face looked. I have these dimples and what seems like frown lines in the corners of my mouth. I also have a bit of a joker smile I think.
    Get the fark rid of these petty, meaningless little insecurities ASAP. You're not a woman. There's no use in worrying about them. You can't change them and a woman might think completely different about these "issues".



    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    I suppose. I would jsut be worried Id be doing it wrong. Also, im quite conditioned to care about what people think of me and have peoples acceptance
    The first rule of PUA is to do whatever you want and not give a fark about what people think.

    The second rule of PUA is to do whatever you want and not give a fark about what people think.

    To achieve freedom from the world's opinions and become truly yourself. That's the real goal of PUA. If you don't want to Peacock, don't do it. If you do, do it. I don't because I don't want to. It's that simple.

    Most of us are here because we once cared too much about what people thought of us, and wanted people's acceptance. You strike me as a supernice guy, which in itself is a good thing, I like nice people, but you're making others happy instead of yourself. Those who make themselves happy are "egoists", but they don't care because they like themselves. Besides, aren't those the guys who girls usually go for...?

    Never ever care about what others think of you again. Remember what the number one regret of the dying is:

    'I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.'



    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    would I need to change the glasses? I've gotten lots of compliments on them.
    Totally up to you. It'd have been helpful to see a picture without the glasses. You might look better without them. If you're getting compliments on them woman think they look good, though. The best thing to do would be to not wear them for a day and see what women say of you losing the glasses.




    You're a decent looking fellow. You slightly resemble me, and I'm happy with the way I look, even though I'm not perfect. No one is. Don't worry about those petty unsecurities, mate. All that matters is what you think of yourself. Not what others think of you.

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    And Virgil arrives like a farking boss haha talk about hitting the nail on the head. I was gonna say the exact same things but I'm currently on my iPhone :P

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    And Virgil arrives like a farking boss haha talk about hitting the nail on the head. I was gonna say the exact same things but I'm currently on my iPhone :P
    Yeah, I was like 'my people need me' and repeated Felix Baumgartner's 37 KM jump from space to land on my feet, leaving a crater in my wake, to save RavenSword from the unsatisfying life of pleasing others.


    Or I just have a very vivid imagination

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    No your right I saw everything... I promise....you landed on my roof and demolished my house. It was freaken awesome haha

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    I'm just going to reinforce what Virgil, Hype, and Supremo said, cuz they're all giving you the right advice

    And thanks for the feedback hype!

    You clearly do have inner game issues you need to work on. (seen my frame control stuff?)

    Your looks aren't bad, you're starting from a better point than most guys, but fact is, you don't stand out

    First time I wore my beret I was like, oh shit I bet I look like an idiot, but I liked the beret so I didn't give a crap, and girls LOVED it.

    Find something you like that's just outside of your normal comfort zone and start there

    peacocking is about standing out, doesn't mean you need a 3 foot tall furry hat like mystery, you just need to be noticed and stop caring about how other people react, depending upon them for their approval is beta, very very beta
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post






    Ok, lets try this one more time. Tell me what you think? Please be brutaly honest.
    Since i missed the first three pages of the thread and don't have time to read them i'm gonna answer to the first post.From the pictures i can guess that U don't want us to rate u're atire u want us to tell u if u're hot or not well i'm not a chick so i don't know if u're ugly or handsome but i am going to tell u to work on you're inner game and i'm going to quote David X (The ugliest MPUA/Dating coach around)
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    Women donít look at us the same way that we look at them. Men are primarily into looks, and women want us to be confident. So it should be easier for us to get laid than it is for them. Because if a woman is ugly, she gets the bottom of the barrel. If a man is ugly, he gets the bottom of the barrel UNLESS he has confidence. If he has confidence, he can pick and choose. "
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    You want it and you're going to get it. I wouldn't have done it any other way if you hadn't asked, anyways.





    Get the fark rid of these petty, meaningless little insecurities ASAP. You're not a woman. There's no use in worrying about them. You can't change them and a woman might think completely different about these "issues".





    The first rule of PUA is to do whatever you want and not give a fark about what people think.

    The second rule of PUA is to do whatever you want and not give a fark about what people think.

    To achieve freedom from the world's opinions and become truly yourself. That's the real goal of PUA. If you don't want to Peacock, don't do it. If you do, do it. I don't because I don't want to. It's that simple.

    Most of us are here because we once cared too much about what people thought of us, and wanted people's acceptance. You strike me as a supernice guy, which in itself is a good thing, I like nice people, but you're making others happy instead of yourself. Those who make themselves happy are "egoists", but they don't care because they like themselves. Besides, aren't those the guys who girls usually go for...?

    Never ever care about what others think of you again. Remember what the number one regret of the dying is:

    'I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.'





    Totally up to you. It'd have been helpful to see a picture without the glasses. You might look better without them. If you're getting compliments on them woman think they look good, though. The best thing to do would be to not wear them for a day and see what women say of you losing the glasses.




    You're a decent looking fellow. You slightly resemble me, and I'm happy with the way I look, even though I'm not perfect. No one is. Don't worry about those petty unsecurities, mate. All that matters is what you think of yourself. Not what others think of you.
    Here a pic of me with no glasses:



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    Default Re: Please rate my looks/style. (23 year old)

    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post






    Ok, lets try this one more time. Tell me what you think? Please be brutaly honest.
    ok so i read all the posts in here and pretty much they told you everything there is to be said .. (so im not gonna repeat their ideas..)

    anyways, since you asked us to rate your looks and style im just gonna judge the book by the cover (ie - your pics) (don't take it personally or anything, i don't want to insult you in anyway.. )

    if i see you in the street my 1st impression would probably be:
    shy, unconfident, a pc geek/gamer that can fix my computer in about 5 seconds (no lifer kinda stuff)..

    NOW WHY am i telling you this and some ideas to help you SOLVE them:

    shy :
    your first picture shows the smile.. i think you exaggerated it a bit and IMO it looks fake (unlike the second picture's smile)
    how to fix - stand in front of the mirror and keep smiling in a relaxed way until it looks natural, and relaxed

    unconfident:
    second picture seems like you are damn tensed as hell bro.. and if you look that tensed in everyday life, thats what is thought of you..
    how to fix: take good breaths and relax, (don't become like those guys which seem to have no back bone lol.. but seriously you are too tensed)..

    pc geek/gamer:
    glasses - thats it..
    how to fix: try using contact lenses or change the frame of the glasseS

    EDIT : i saw the picture of you without glasses now, and i think you look better without them


    also i dont think there is anything wrong with your genetic facial features (i cant go in detail for this since i dont KNOW how and dont really wish to know or how to rate a Male ..just saying :P)

    now i'd like to tell you that all this is just MY OPINION and its just MY ADVICE..
    if you don't like it, you can do whatever the fark you wanna do (<--- perfect Mindset btw :P)

    as for peacocking and stuff.. i don't think its for everybody, i mean some people can pull it off pretty awesomely like Red Baron and others just s*ck at it..

    Personally i don't use any peacocking stuff.. infact i use 2 accesories..no necklaces, no bracelets, no caps, no sandals, no rings, no dyed hair (in fact it is buzz cut).. only 2 ear piercings

    the only things which 'could possibly' be classified as peacocking are some white t-shirts i use, which in club lights end up highlighted ..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!


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