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Thread: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

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    Lightbulb Why Nice Guys Finish Last

    I hear men complain all the time about how women aren't attracted to the 'Nice Guy.' My view; the nice guy is the male version of a whore.

    A man seeks physical satisfaction from women. A woman who offers up this physical satisfaction with little or no effort on the man's part is someone we might label a whore. Why would a man have give any thought to investing in a woman like this? Why would he put the time an effort into a woman who gives it up so easy?

    Women often seek emotional satisfaction from men (most cases). If a man offers up emotional attention and satisfaction with little or no effort, why would a woman feel special? Why would a woman invest herself in a man who gives it up so easy? She wants to feel special; as we all do. A man wants to feel like there is something about him that makes a woman want him. The whore doesn't offer this. A woman wants to feel that there is something about her that makes a man want her. The nice guy doesn't provide this.

    Attention and affection for everyone cheapens the experience for those receiving the attention and affection. I don't fault any women for wanting to feel there is something special and specific about them that is deserving of affection and attention. The same way a man wants a woman who's with him because there is something about him, specifically, she wants and likes.

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    Default Re: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

    this is definately a good explanation of why "cheap guys finish last" you don't have to be mean or an @ss hole to get weman, its ok to be nice, but its not ok to be cheap. it is perfectly possible for a nice guy to play hard to get and still get some

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    Default Re: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

    being 'nice' means your sacrafice what you want to be agreeable to another person. In other words you put their needs before your own.

    some would disagree, but I say NEVER do this. you will lose in the long run.

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    Default Re: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

    I call bull. There is nothing wrong with being nice. What person would possibly choose being treated like crap over someone who treats them well?

    Most nice guys are wussies. They aren't confident, usually shy, quiet. I know because I was one and am transitioning out of the phase. You can be nice, and still be alpha, confident, hard to get, etc.

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    Default Re: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

    I've been there. I didn't offer everything like a nice guy did, but I acted a lot like one. I said sorry when I bumped them, sorry if I said something bad, being scared of bad reactions and the worst WORST thing ever. Telling girls about my problems.

    Girls who had problems, would open up and eventually see you as a weak person. Others would just see you as weak on the spot.

    I'm glad things have changed and have a better way of seeing things generally not only in PUA.


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