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Thread: Fighting depression as a PUA.

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    Default Fighting depression as a PUA.

    Well this is my dilema, before i entered the comunity i wasnt really succeful with women but i wasnt an AFC either, maybe a didnt have tons of girls but i had relationships that were meaninful to me.
    Now that i been doing this for a while i have slept with girls that i never dreamed i could get but they all sense that im just a player and after we have sex its over.
    I feel completily numb and the worst part is that i think that i have forgotten how to interact with women without game, any one feeling like this? or any advice?

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    Default Re: Fighting depression as a PUA.

    Yes at some point everyone will feel like this. Look it's cuz when u were an AFC u didn't have as much women as u want life has become disgustingly easy know that the thing that most bugged u in the past is solved. I suggest u take up something knew, challenge urself!
    I think u should read this:
    xavier - What to expect when becoming a pua
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Fighting depression as a PUA.

    Yes, though the girls do not think that I am a player... they still try to find the nice guy in me.
    Read this:
    http://www.puaforums.com/game/18074-...otionless.html
    Make the impossible possible!

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    Default Re: Fighting depression as a PUA.

    Yes & No. I still have certain feelings like this but then i sooner or later come to the realization that I am searching for external stimulus rather than internal fulfillment. Upon that realization you should do things to gain internal fulfillment rather than worry about the external..
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Fighting depression as a PUA.

    Autismus did a post about buyers remorse. Read that. Part of your cold feeling maybe due to some conscience issues on your part.

    Also, i think its ok once in awhile to geek out on something. Find a topic you like (tv show, writer, etc) and spend a few weeks learning about said topic. Only sarge once in awhile during this time. If you stay focused on the topic, keep it interesting, you will find that you will be ok with gaming hard again after some time. Its like u took a break lol.

    'You never realize what u need until u lose it. U never realize what u lost until u need it."
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    Default Re: Fighting depression as a PUA.

    I have been fighting depression and low self esteem my entire life. I completely understand your situation as I have faced it myself. My solution was to quit gaming and simply TALK with women. At this point I feel you see women as little more than sex objects. You have to get yourself out of that mode where every move you make is to get them into your bed. I also think you will find that once you start just having normal conversations with various women, you will find that things you have learned in gaming become instinctive and will build attraction in normal conversation.

    Yea it sucks not getting laid, but I feel I am only moderately attractive, and in the last few weeks I have been getting MAD IOIs from several girls at my workplace (all very attractive), and I'm exclusively dating the most beautiful of them at the moment. We havn't even slept together yet and probably won't for some time, but our relationship is more fulfilling to me than any of my casual relationships over the past year.

    NUTSHELL: Remember that women are PEOPLE, and in order to forge a connection with her, you need to understand HER, not just act like you do.
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