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Thread: PUA Checklists - An example

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    Default PUA Checklists - An example

    Right, before this gets misinterpreted to oblivion, I've got something that I've found of great use to me that is highly under-appreciated. Checklists. They are free, underutilized. They are nerdy, and they are usefull as fark.

    Now, when I say something like "PUA checklist" you might think of something like "list of PUA fantasies/goals" like :

    0. approach some chicks
    2. go on some dates
    1. loose virginity
    ..
    599. bang pamela anderson

    but that is not what I'd like to present here. Neither is it a "tutorial" on how to seduce someone. If you are interested in those things alone please go away.

    Whenever a complex process with multiple failure points is involved, like flying a plane or surgery, it is usually the "stupid stuff" that gets forgotten. That is why airline pilots have pre-flight checklists, as well as checklists for almost any conceivable emergency. What's more- these have been fine tuned to leave in just the "most important stuff" so as to be practical.

    I wanted to try something similar here. So - here are my checklists. It is of course specific to me, but anyone with half a brain can create their own personalized version that would grow/evolve with time

    Vkontakte (eastern european verison of Facebook) Checklist:

    • hold a pleasant conversation for a bit
    • create rapport (gemeni)
    • schedule a meeting – time,location,exact place of meeting, no ambiguity, phone number

    Girl Qualities Checklist:
    0. single
    1. Atheism/ non religiosity
    2. non-embarassing looks – would you like to have sex with that?


    Pre-Date Checklist:
    1. Be showered and clothed 1.5-2 hours before the date
    2. clean socks, necklace, good clothes
    3. clean shoes
    4. perfume
    5. have the name, location, time, tel. number written down
    6. excercise
    7. listen to 50 shades of grey
    8. mom’s whereabouts
    9. sufficient cash
    10. confirmation of date if flaky
    11. Create the Briefing


    Date CheckList:
    1. When on your way, read the Briefing
    2.Take your mobile on dates, establish the meeting place/time/date without any ambiguity

    Briefing Checkist
    The briefing is a single piece of paper that should contain all or most of the following:
    1. Name
    2. Interests
    3. Location/Time of meeting without any ambiguity
    4. telephone number

    Note: avoid the temptation to write the Briefing on a phone app or something - a piece of paper with large letters can be pulled out in seconds while you are on the way.

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    Default Re: PUA Checklists - An example

    Honestly, I don't see the purpose of the checklist you provided. For myself personally, everything on that checklist is something I do without prompting. I don't need a checklist to tell me to put on clean socks. I guess if you need a checklist for these things, then go for it.

    I maybe see value in a checklist for the actual pickup process, but lots of the guys on this forum are about natural game and a checklist is just another way of organizing canned game.

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    Default Re: PUA Checklists - An example

    Yeahh I agree with some prep work but I don't think THAT much prep is nessecary. cause at the end of the night you could have everything checked off but you had a shitty date or vise versa. Be prepaired just not overly prepaired.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: PUA Checklists - An example

    Putting the pussy on the pedestal. Sounds like you're going for a job interview. Relax a little.

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    Default Re: PUA Checklists - An example

    besides the "pre-date checklist" the rest of these are pointless, instead, list some modest qualities you would like the woman of your dreams to have and give every girl you meet a chance to demonstrate their "qualities", however they should not have to meet every quality in the list in order for you to spend time with them. just the more qualities a girl has, the more likely you are to keep her thats all. you shouldn't worry to much about her qualities until you get well into the comfort stage of dating.

    for now don't overthink things, you could be focusing on talking to her rather than thinking about a stupid checklist during the date. instead look at your checklist after you have had several dates to see what she is like compared to what you expect in your "dream girl"


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