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    Hey,

    I got this idea I personally think is great but before testing it out I would like to see what you think.

    The idea is for a girl who I allready know for a little more then a month and we follow a class together.

    The plan is after coming back from the mensbathroom asking her: Hey did you wrote your phonenumber on the wall in mensroom with message I'm single and hopeless xxx #HER NAME# because if not someone did.

    Giving me the oppertunity to afterwards bust her balls and say she probably could get that #low status# male who's also in the class. And she has the excitement not knowing it's true or not.

    Any feedback in general or about possible traps or backfires are welcom.

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    Default Re: attraction building idea/game

    That's a risky move... unless you let her know right away that you're just messing with her & then switch topics immediately.

    Otherwise, she may start to think you're a habitual liar & desperate.

    You're better off going with a fun, playful, direct, flirty approach.


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    Default Re: attraction building idea/game

    Hey thx for the reply

    The idea is ofcourse to tell it in away she knows I'm messing with her 99% sure. I wanted to leave a little doubt of her thinking did he wrote my number on the wall with the message Im signle and despraid. But i repeat again this is a girl I know and hang out with not a complete stranger.


    I do realize it's kinda walking the line but that's how I'm I walk the line.

    What's not flirty or fun about the idea btw I would say this is flirty, fun and exciting

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    Default Re: attraction building idea/game

    you're looking at this in the wrong context of flirting and fun, it's pretty much calling her a slut haha unless you've joked about that before its a bit hard to introduce something like this, I'm not even sure how you'd even gain her attraction for you, I reckon it'd be pretty unsuccessful especially if she asks for you to get a picture of it to prove it or wants to see it?

    id find or use another less flawed method if I were you, but if it puts your mind at ease test it out and if you prove me wrong ill be happy

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    Default Re: attraction building idea/game

    I like what the guys above have said. But I'll be on the optimistic side of this and see if this can become something. So this is how I'd do it...

    Not sure if you know about Juggler. He has a very subtle game that I enjoy and have learned some important things from him. This is probably the most important I learned;

    A confident man takes his time saying what he has to say because he doesn't feel like he's taking her time.

    A timid, or unsure, man spits out the whole line in one fell swoop because he feels he is intruding.

    Point blank...spread out your opener.

    You: "You won't believe what I just saw."

    Her: "What?"

    You: "There's a phone number on the boys wall."

    Her: "Ok?..." or
    Her: "Who?"

    You: "Yea. I think it's a girls. The initials are (her initials)"

    Her: "Lol you jerk!" with a punch

    (In case she doesn't catch it)

    You: "I never thought you the type..."

    Her: "What type?"

    You: "To be so desperate for a husband."

    Her: "Wtf?"
    Her: "Lol you're an ass."
    Her: "Ok....?"

    You: "Don't think you'll find him in there though..." (to be continued)

    The key is to only give out a little at a time to get her curious to know more. The more she wants out of you the more she invests in the conversation and therefore her response will be better than if you were to just spit it all out at once.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: attraction building idea/game

    Thx 'Hyp' and 'Batman' for the reply and opinion! You both gave some really solid advice!!!!

    The main reason I would use/like the idea is because it's congruent with who I am and how I project my self (the image people get of me).

    @Hyp: The message I want to sent is: Are you really that desperate you write your mobile number on the wall in the men's restroom because there are some low status man in our class you got probably hook up with.
    Btw it's a toilet she can easily acces when I say it, there is no need to prove anything for me. (And even if there was :-p )


    @Batman: That's some real sollid advice man on how to deliver
    the stroy/joke better!!!

    But in conclussion everyone thinks it's a risky move!

    That's good to know, because this is a girl I sexual and intellecual (she's a hot vetrinary doctor which I didn't know that existed) really like. I'll try qualifaction then as recommended in the expert area.

    Thx for the advice everyone!!!!!


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