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    Default she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    Hi Guys..... and maybe girls.

    I have been studying PU and most things that are related to it for a little while now, I no longer class myself as a AFC but I don't class myself as a PUA either, I still don't understand a lot of things in the game, but one thing that has happened to me by twice by two different girls in a short amount of time is a real mind messer and that is, I will be speaking to them via text, things are going pretty well, plenty of ioi's etc, and even though im playing it cool and not too keen, both girls have come across as pretty keen, but when it comes to meeting up after arranging to meet, they will cancel on me hours after we should have met, so this really messes up my nights/days. one of them girls was only last week, we were getting on well, SHE suggested we met up, we arranged a day and a rough time. and then on the night, she NEVER text me and still hasn't a week later, no apology, explanation or nothing. Im too stubborn to text her to find out what happened. Does anyone know what this is all about? where is the common decency?

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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    Iv got a girl ATM who is doing this to me, she acts really keen etc, I then set up a date and shes like 'I'll see what I'm doing and let you know' then she doesn't text me for the rest if the day, and then the next day is all keen and initiates contact again. Headfuck. Tbh Im now just using her to practise text game on and to text when I'm bored and if she wants to meet she can set it up cus I'm not doing it anymore.
    But in answer no I don't know why they do it :L makes no sense :/ just go find other girls who are more worth your time is my advice.

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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    Thanks for your response linking! you can sure relate to this then.

    It doesn't make any sense, especially when its the girl who asks to meet you, then stands you up and doesn't send a single message after?

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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    I know :L honestly, it happens to me every now and again and I do nothing different to what I do with the large amount of women that I have success with :S

    Linking x

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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    the minute you leave a girls sight, she immediately starts to forget about you. this is why its so important to build initial attraction and that you dont wait more than two days to text a girl if you didnt build strong enough initial attraction. another thing that will potentially bring about a flake, is if you text her too much; when i say too much, i mean more than three text messages sent and i dont even text them at all. i set up a date when im with her and i dont usually exchange numbers. if she has my number, she can cancel which she is sometimes going to, but a very select group of girls is bitchy enough to actually make a date and not show up. by not giving her your number its very unlikely that she will flake.

    but seriously guys, three messages is all it takes, one to initiate contact, one to ramp up sexual Tension, and one to set the date. no more. at all. seriously guys try it you will be surprised.
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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    the minute you leave a girls sight, she immediately starts to forget about you.
    With all due respect, I disagree with this. Attraction can grow from when the girl invests in you, especially when "falling in love" with you, she remembers you, she thinks about you, she start to find your imperfections "cute". Its just the way their minds work. That's why when you first interact with her you should do things like qualifying, Push-Pull, micro-communication and gaining rapport, its stuff that most guys don't know how to do and that's what separates us. They bring new experiences for her and she will remember you.
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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    notice how you left out attraction. have fun in the friends zone. tho i understand your arguement, your arguement is invalid because that wasnt my own speculation, that sceintific fact. in my opinion your completely overestimating how easily girls fall for you. qualifying is just a part of Push Pull and push pull is simply to get her qualifying herself to you. shes not in love with you, shes only trying to prove to you that shes good enough.

    yes attraction can grow when she invests in you, but it doesnt work nearly as well when your the one investing in her, which is what most guys think theyre doing when they text a girl condtantly when really all theyare doing is telling her she is good enough which in turn renders your push pulling a waste of time.
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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    also if your trying to get her to fall head over heels for you like it sounds like your trying to, then good luck leaving them better off than they were before they met you. all your doing is making the inevitable break up worse and your going to end up breaking a rule of pick up.
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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    You make a fair point but all these things that I mentioned should take place after some attraction is built. I'm not saying to text her constantly or put the pussy on a pedestal but showing your not like the rest of guys will help her to remember you, if she has very positive feelings after the interact then she elicit those feelings later. It includes things like giving her feelings that she never feels, stating your intent, demonstrating how much of an alpha you are but not over doing it like a clown. I just think she can remember it if you get an incredible interaction and you have solid game, it will result like that.
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    Default Re: she is all keen, but then she stands me up?

    why would she need help remembering me? you just said that it isnt true that she starts forgetting you the minute you leave her sight so now why would she need help remembering me? your contradicting yourself.

    she doesnt remember me because im gonna text her cute messages and constantly be there for her and do things that most guys wont. (the guys that wont do that are the guys that are getting laid might i add) she will remember me because im the guy that doesnt bend over backwards for her. im the guy thats got better things to do than text to get to know her all day, and because the Kino Escalation i ran on her has her itching to see me again.

    also if you wanna text her all the time after you first meet her, on the off chance she doesnt get annoyed with you and stop talking to you, lets say your right and she does think your different from every other guy and she loves all the cute little things you do, heres whats gonna happen. she will start to fall for you, over the phone, putting a lot more pressure on your first date until you have a long distance over the phone relationship with a girl that lives in the same city as you. so good luck.
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