Pickup Noobs vs. Numbering System
Iíll be quick to let you know Iím a pickup noob. Not in the sense that I know nothing about pickup, I have probably studied more hours of seminars, infield footage, and blogs than most of the people who have this as a hobby. I say Iím a noob, but only because Iím only about 4 months into the game and I am still building my inner game. Iíve put crazy amounts of time into self-actualization and there are times when I feel more like myself than ever, but I still havenít completely internalized these beliefs, so thatís why I say Iím a pickup noob. ANYWAY, when I find myself at my best here is one of the things Iíve considered.
Ok, so in the game we refer to girls as HB#s. This is a terrible mentality if you are a noob because as unconscious men we look at superficial factors. If youíre new to pickup knock it off. This is how it works for me, you should take the time to think about it. To me, pickup isnít about not getting rejected, getting every girl, or whatever. Pickup, for me, is all about getting the reference points to expand myself as a human being and to help me become free from the binds of social conditioning, group think, and maintaining healthy relationships with beautiful women. I could sit in a corner and meditate or w/e for the rest of my life, but when external stimulus starts happening I wouldnít know how to react, so instead, I go out and game. You donít have to think like I do, I wouldnít ask you to, this is just how I deal with my journey. Find your way to deal with it.
The number system we use is relative to the person numbering. You might only see this as superficial beauty and whatnot, but this is my theory on what your subconscious is really saying about these girls. Your number system will be different than mine, and vice versa, hereís why;
HBs1 Ė 4: These girls are the ones you already feel entitled to. If you find yourself never approaching them, wtf are you doing? Sure, you donít HAVE to approach them, but I think you should, at least to get the reference of how your body reacts when you talk to them, because this is how your body should feel ALL THE TIME, with EVERY GIRL. Emotions are self-generating so this is an important reference point for your inner-game.
HBs5 Ė 7: These girls are the ones that you feel of equal to maybe a little bit higher value than you. You kind of feel theyíre your peers, maybe you arenít too attracted to them or whatever. If youíre a noob these are more likely the girls you should be aiming for. I say this because these are the ones that youíre going to push yourself with every once in a while. So, where as you donít care about the 1-4s and you really donít care about how it goes, with the 5-7s you find it in yourself to follow the processes. If youíre new and find it hard to trust the processes aim for these girls, this way you can grow a trust in yourself and in the processes.
HBs8-10: These girls are the ones that will be the most likely put you in your head and make you reactive. They are the reason that you have to trust the process and yourself. When youíve built enough trust in yourself and the processes, youíll pull them. If you donít pull them it could be one of two actual reasons; One, you failed to trust and follow the process. Two, external circumstances.
There you go. This is my theory on the relative number system. So next time you see a PUAs girlfriend and youíre all, ďShe is a 6,Ē and he thinks she is an 8 this is why. Letís be honest, beauty is just a Sh1t Test anyway.