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Thread: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

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    Default Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    I posted a while back about some issues with an ex. And after reading these forums it truly helped me back to the person I was before the breakup.

    I realized that all the years of sales that I was truly stellar in is no different then picking up women, while i'm still getting back into my "perpetual smile" mode I do have to say I never thought using the sales tactics we were trained with would work for women but apparently they do. Steering, hearing 10 no's before a yes, hearing a no and not giving up, making an ass out of yourself if you have to, and most importantly making people smile. It all works just the same. I'm still learning (in this field) but I plan to be a beast at it.

    Thanks y'all, I plan to stick around for a while.

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    That's the spirit bro! It's all about improving some aspect of our lives! Just have positive energy like you have, be willing to learn and improve, then your life automatically gets better. Good luck bro!
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    My new years resolution was to be more open to people. My "usual" self is an asshole that really doesn't care what people think so long as I get what I want. My "Sensei" side(where I received my business training) was always in control. I was use to being alpha in everything except women. Then it clicked that picking up women is the same thing as selling myself so-to-speak. Give them what they want, take it away and they're yours.

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    Quote Originally Posted by crapohcrap View Post
    My new years resolution was to be more open to people. My "usual" self is an asshole that really doesn't care what people think so long as I get what I want. My "Sensei" side(where I received my business training) was always in control. I was use to being alpha in everything except women. Then it clicked that picking up women is the same thing as selling myself so-to-speak. Give them what they want, take it away and they're yours.
    Pretty much in the same boat as you

    Only problem is being an as$hole is kind of fun

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    It really is, however not having dates is not.

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    Went out to work a little on myself this past weekend. Did some Karaoke. Something I would NEVER have done while dating my ex. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be and definitely helped getting myself into an uncomfortable situation that I had no way of knowing how to act in. Definitely getting more average confidence in things I don't like doing,

    I wouldn't do it again my choice because it's really not all that enjoyable but I did it because I wanted to improve something about myself.

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    Default Re: Thanks. Don't post much but wanted to share

    Asked out this barista at a local coffee spot after chatting with her a few times. Been there 3 times in the past few weeks and she was generally interested from remembering my name and our conversations we had considering the place is always packed. She said she would hit me up on her break but came out a declined saying that she "can't give me her number right now but I think you're really cool and hope you keep coming in so we can have those conversations"

    So, It wasn't a flat out rejected and I was able to keep the big sh1t eating grin I always have and told her I'd talk to her later since my and me buddies had to jam. Not once when I asked her or when she declined did I have any feelings of anxiety, felt good to get back to how I was when I did sales. Also felt good hearing no, because every 10 no's you get a yes.

    Thanks again y'all.


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