dont ask men about what hairstyle suits you... you should ask the following people only:
1. female friends (no family members, on one condition, if they are experts)
2. hairdressers for women. walk into a women's hairdresser boutique, chest puffed up with a huge smile, and super confident. dont look at the women there. just ask a free hairdresser or someone who works there for advice. most are more willing to help and some might even give you a haircut.
3. look for a female barber... these ladies never fail... almost