Share how Pick Up has changed your life
I thought this would be a cool thread to start and hear how everyone one else has benefited from pick up. If we get some good stories maybe admin will lock it in the begainner's area to encourage the new guys. So I'll Start.
I have always been really good with flirting it was just always natural to me but I got into this stage where I would just from one oneitis to the next never getting anywhere with women. After about three years of this I got fed up and told myself I needed to become better with women. I started searching the internet for help until I stumbled upon this very fourm. I started reading every thread I could in order to get out of this beta behavior. Shortly after I stopped having oneiti (plural I think ) but that was just the tip of the iceburg. I read all the advice from the best on these fourms and knew exactly how be a Master PUA... but knowing and doing are two different things. Even with all this knowledge I wasn't getting much better besides the fact that I no longer had oniti. One day I came across a thread on inner game and started reading into it, which was when I realized without this none of the other shit mattered. So I forgot about all the other stuff I learnt (for the time being) and started working on my inner game. Until a few months ago my inner game wasn't near a level where I could start using all the other information I learnt before. Since then every weekend is better than the last with closes and interactions!
My personal tip to anyone and everyone: "Inner game is #1" Im a scrawny dude which was the root of my terrible inner game, but as your inner game grows you start to see shit like that isn't important and when you can truely appreaciate yourself then and ONLY then is when you will start to be sucessful in Pick Up.
In life you get what you put into it.