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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Also! When I'm with my AFC friends it makes me be all, "Yea, you want to learn to do it now huh?" So it gets me all motivated and shit.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Also! When I'm with my AFC friends it makes me be all, "Yea, you want to learn to do it now huh?" So it gets me all motivated and sh1t.
    lol well they cant go to bars with me or anything like that im older than all of them. i was the oldest dude in my senior class in highschool so i dont really have older friends
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Linking is right, you want activity dates. Not dinner, not a movie. Ice skating, rollerblading, kayaking. Coffee can be OK if you have board games or something unique to play.

    And making them laugh is good, but trying too hard to make them laugh is bad, you turn in to a dancing monkey. You never want to work to impress them.

    Also, it really sounds like you do need to work on your own life first. It sounds like you are unhappy, so you need to look at why you are and how you can fix it. If you don't bring positive energy out to dates, it's gonna go south
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    Default Re: im just done with it

    You asked her if she wanted to leave when she mentioned something about being movie horrible. That kind of shows me that you really do need to work on your inner game. All kinds of problems spawn from it. 3 years ago could you even get a girl to GO on a date with you?0

    Just over a year ago I could barely hold a conversation with a girl.

    8 months ago I made out with this beautiful 20 year old, had her into me, messed it up within the first week, went lust crazy, got over her

    30 days ago met this beautiful, successful young woman. Made it last 30 days this time, probably messed things up with her, but hey I made it 30 days with a beautiful woman this time. It sucks for me because she is seriously a keeper, but oh well I'll move on and continue to grow.

    It gets a little better every time, even if you don't notice right away. Changing how you perceive your failures dramatically increases your success over time.
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    Default Re: im just done with it

    you have to set your priorities man... u remind of myself when i was unemployed (7 months, i had to move back with my parents)... i can sort of imagine how you're feeling..

    focus on getting a job first and in the mean time just approach girls and go on "light" dates... dont take them to the movies or places that require u to pay much money... a walk in the park... a coffee shop... keep it light... dont try jumping into the next step until u get a job or feel better about urself...

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    well i also didnt know that she doesnt really watch movies or tv to much lol she told me that during the date. yea im never bringing a date to the movies again lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    take her later when you are both "steady" if thats what you're looking for!!! ^^
    hope you\'re relaxed man... ask for help and work on it!! you're doing great already!!! better than most of your AFC friends! at least you're improving! *thumbs up*

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    wait you think i could actually recover from her leaving before the date was over? cause in my mind that means not talking to her again
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    No, that girl is over. It's best for your health if you just move on. Forget girls for a couple weeks and really work on yourself. Take the advice the pros here are offering you and you'll being doing great in no time!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    From my perspective its seems like you need to sort out the rest of your life before you start gaming.

    I have a rule, I never text when I'm upset, in a bad mood or even feeling a little apathetic. Even a small dampener in mood can ruin things. People want to be around happy vibrant people and I'm afraid its something you just can't fake.

    You're not expected to have the perfect life, but you need to be happy in the life you are in. For example, I live with my parents but for now I'm happy with that so when I get a challenge on it I respond in a positive way

    Chin up, and in the nicest possible way; sort your life out! : )


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