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    Default Re: im just done with it

    it was as soon as we set down she sat in the seat next to me but was as far away as the arm rest would let her idk why. and how was i suppose to make any kind of move from that? it was kinda bullsh1t

    you can point your body so its on a 45-90 degree angle facing her so you can still talk, it would be odd if you sat facing the screen where you weren't looking at each other while you talked

    I have a rule, I never text when I'm upset, in a bad mood or even feeling a little apathetic. Even a small dampener in mood can ruin things.

    right on, i never thought about it like that but its so true

    also so what if your mates don't come out or aren't interested in women, you can go solo, it's pretty :/ for me at the moment but i've seen people without fear, they have balls - what i'll have one day when i get over the made up ' fear '

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    lol yea im just gonna put movies as bad date idea for me and anyone i know. i just dont know what else to do really? tulsa is not that exciting
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Believe me, I know how hard it can be, but she simply bailed on the date, why would you even WANT to give her any more of your time if she didn't want to do the same?

    I have the same problems with you as far as what to do on a date. It means we need hobbies and to go out and explore to see what kinds of activities we are into. It's hard without money, but I think we can figure out something to solve this problem. That's what we as people do after all; solve one problem just to run into another, even of our own creation.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    i do things lol i write music, go to college, workout, cook, clean, and ill soon be on utube for xbox 360 video games for achievements. but i have a car that looks like someone beat it up with a hammer all over it lol i dont have very nice clothes and no job. so i have some things going for me lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Date ideas ain't that hard, the original go to a bar for a beer is pretty good, wana step it up a notch go and taste cocktails. Cold winters day wrap up real warm and go for a walk in a park, maybe even take a thermos flask and some soup. Cook dinner for her, if u wana freak out about too much investment tell her she has to bring pudding. If u find the right girl you could even have a video game night although it's rare :L
    Seriously fun dates aren't that hard to come up with just be imaginative. To me a lot of the time though dates are a bit like background music......you take loads a time deciding what you want to do and then you just talk and take no notice anyway

    Linking x

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    Props to everyone who has said work on your inner game. You have to start from here buddy.

    You said you can keep a job well what is it? Lack of work ethic, skills, jobs available. Whatever it is you have to correct it, if you can provide for yourself you'll not only feel better about yourself you'll be able to do more high value things.

    Me being an extreme optimist I always look at the things I have going for me in my life and I try to spread positiveness by helping others for no gain other than increasing the well being and happiness of those around me. And if you do it for that reason you'll find your life will continuously get better.

    Now cut the "I give-up" bullshit and the "I can't do it" bullshit. If you really don't like something you'd just stop doing it. However seeing as you posted this thread its obvious you were searching for help, and it is 100% not weak to ask for help. It IS 100% to say "I give up" or "I can't do it". So just stop it, it will make you stronger.

    Finally the reason why inner game is so important is even if you have the knowledge to game girls, how do you expect to be able to handle someone else's emotions, thoughts, life if you can't even handle your own? It's simple you will not. Whether you think so or not these are cues that you give off that allow other people see size you up and get a good understand how you feel about yourself. Questions on inner game PM me.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    PUA isnt for everyone, and there are other ways of getting women.
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Default Re: im just done with it

    I'm dead serious, you should look at doing a planned date routine that you can repeat. Just like the Mystery Method suggests. It would work wonders for you I bet.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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