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    Thumbs down Need Help - Bad approching at discos

    Well, here is the thing, I go out a lot to Discos or clubs, however you want to call them. I tried the Drug Dealer line Opener... I tried to open like 6 groups and none of them went well... Some girls didnt even answer the first question! (Do you think I look like a drug dealer). So after I realize that won't work, I just started opening like and AFC (Would you like to dance) and actually that was my opener, so after it, everything gone well, i have a good game so went well but my problem was the opener... At the dance floor girls didnt even care, they just said like "No" right away and I wasnt even asking to dance with them!

    Guys tell me some openers for discos. How to approach at the disco?

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    Default Re: Need Help - Bad approching at discos

    Listen... Make sure you don't fall into the trap of just trying to do millions of lines. The RULE (this is not my opinion, this is a RULE that nearly anyone with solid game will agree with)... The opener is 10% of the determining factor of success. Delivery is 90%.

    Pick 2 to 3 openers max, rotate delivery of these, and pick the one that "feels" best to you. THIS DOES NOT MEAN the one that was the most successful. I'm making a VERY subtle point here. You have to be so comfortable with your openers that they just flow and they start to work. Eventually, your opener just won't matter. Which is why it's important at first to just pick some that feel good to you and you know you can say either funny or with confidence.

    "Do I look like a drug-dealer?" << I'm not sure who coined this, but this just doesn't seem good to me, because drug-dealers have a negative connotation, and I wouldn't want a woman scanning me or even remotely thinking I was a drug dealer. If I wanted to use that angle, MAYBE I could say "do I look like a pimp??", but even then I guess I personally just don't like asking a girl if I look like anything because it seems like I'm asking her to validate me, which I damn sure won't do. << again however, this is just me, and someone else could pull this off in such a funny way that it works. I guess, in theory, I could say it and have it work (you can nearly say gibberish and it can work), but I just don't like it.

    Plus, drug-dealers and discos don't mix...

    Mystery's cat-fight opener works. When I ran alone in a dicso, I used to use that one because when you go through it right, it can be pretty damn funny. I altered it to talk about how there is a girl on the dance floor that dance so hard her boob fell out and it was so saggy that she had to pick it up off the floor. But it's said in such a funny way that it usually gets a funny response and I IMMEDIATELY start in on some other topic as soon as a response is achieved.

    At any rate... that site above has some good ones. Just pick a few, say them in front of a mirror about 50 times until you make yourself interested in yourself (yes, weird, but do it anyway) and go practice it.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 03-05-2013 at 08:08 AM. Reason: links. again.
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    Default Re: Need Help - Bad approching at discos

    Thanks for your help CR. I have a question tho, which is the Cat fight opener?
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    Default Re: Need Help - Bad approching at discos

    Hey man, i see you are from chile (me too), so here it is: We have a big problem in chile, all the "discos" we know are mainly dance floor, there is really little room for people not dancing, and in case there is, the most common scenario is tables, also HB's don't just go to the bar, they just stay 99% of the time at the dance floor "dancing with a girl friend", not to mention that most of the "discos" are very loud so it's hard to talk. So, what can we do? there is some suggestions:

    1. Maybe, forget about discos and find places where your game will be usefull, try the rock music bars (i know 2 in santiago), or maybe go to some pubs and try tables-game.

    2. If discos is a must: Use extreme social proof and some decent dance moves, bring a nice looking (try hot) girl, or better a group, with you to the club (maybe cousing or old friend willing to help) and try hitting the dance floor, have fun with your girl and make sure other girls see you, try getting some eye contact and be aware of girls getting close to you dancing, then make a "dancing invitation", i mean some dance moves inviting a girl to join your dancing (dont ask them to dance with you) and if the girl seems interested try dancing as a group for a few minutes, then make it a little more personal (Kino and maybe some name exchanges) with your target and finally take her to the bar (grab her hand and command her to "come with me, i need a drink" (don't leave your wingwoman alone, if thats the case then take both girls to the bar, she need to be instructed to leave you alone after some minutes of course), and then and only then use your game.

    3. If you can't get a wingwoman to help you, then maybe try this: arrive early, and i mean really early to the club and inmediatly engage the few groups that you find and use your game. If you arrive early enough the people won't be dancing, so you have a good chance of finding a 2-set of girls or maybe a bigger group on a table, or even some girls standing by the bar. As a general rule, if you are alone or with a wingman (no girls with you) at 3am then your are done, chances are that all the girls will be dancing with a girl friend or with some guys so you have two options: 1. Try to dance like there is no tomorrow and invite the girls to dance with you (eve n ask them if you have to) or 2. LEAVE, go home, get some sleep and try again tomorrow.

    In my opinion, Chile is a very hard scenario, i have travelled a lot and i'm almost sure that it's easier in other countries.

    If you need more help just ask me.

    Take Care..!


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