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Thread: Experiements in becoming a worse person

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    Default Experiements in becoming a worse person

    So I've been actively trying to learn any and all pua techniques that I can for probably close to for months I think. Maybe a little longer, idk. But in my studies I came across one common thread amongst the big pickup artists. I saw, and I'm sure many others have seen that near their lowest point they made the decision to do exactly the opposite of what they thought would work. They tried to become an asshole.

    So, young college me with very little to lose decided to do the same and I figured the pua community would like to know how it's been going.

    The general idea is that I was just going to try to be an asshole to women. That's all. I really didn't expect much to come out of it, but early on I noticed a striking change. I'm not going to say that my life dramatically changed, but the difference is kind of amazing.

    In the early weeks I noticed that girls would pay just slightly more attention to me. I would laugh at them, point out that they were drunk, sloppy, looking for attention, and heads turned.

    The sweetheart of my fraternity began to talk to me more.

    After the first month I was beginning to have a lot of fun. I no longer cared what women thought. I was above them and there wasn't a damn thing they could do about it. I made out with a few girls, which was rare for me, and I began to ride higher.

    After the second month I was still getting better and that's where I currently am. I'm finally not a virgin, and I can tell that I've subconsciously raised my standards. I feel much better about myself, even though to a lot of people, I'm a lot less nice.

    I didn't post this to brag. I know I'm far from perfect or good at this yet, but I felt the need to share the story about what a change in attitude can do.

    I also invite opinions, advice, questions, and any other input on the situation anyone would like to offer. I'd also like to thank everyone on here for helping me out with everything. Without you guys, I don't think this would have been possible.

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    Default Re: Experiements in becoming a worse person

    You're correct to some extent.
    Women are attracted to dominant, confident, alpha males.... the "bad boy" type DOES get their curiosity all ramped up.

    But you don't want to actually become an @sshole, or domineering douchebag. Girls will get sick of that pretty quick.

    Being bold, & not afraid to voice an opinion is a good thing... but just bad-mouthing people or putting them down is gonna come back to bite a guy in the ass.

    So you have to be careful not to over-do the "attitude".


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    Default Re: Experiements in becoming a worse person

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You're correct to some extent.
    Women are attracted to dominant, confident, alpha males.... the "bad boy" type DOES get their curiosity all ramped up.

    But you don't want to actually become an @sshole, or domineering douchebag. Girls will get sick of that pretty quick.

    Being bold, & not afraid to voice an opinion is a good thing... but just bad-mouthing people or putting them down is gonna come back to bite a guy in the ass.

    So you have to be careful not to over-do the "attitude".
    T mal is correct. It's not necessarily being the jerk, it's you being different that attracts women.

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    Default Re: Experiements in becoming a worse person

    It's like the difference between Bitch Shield and bitchiness: One is a mask one puts on in social situations and the other is an identity.

    What works about the asshole strategy is that it displays to people that you don't care what they think. Even if you secretly really do, if people think you are free from insecurity they'll flock to you because they want to be free from insecurity too and hope they can learn something from you.
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    might as well unlock all the secret areas


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