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    Default Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Why do you want to have sex? Have you ever thought about it? Is it psychological or physiological? Do you really think it is driven by your physiology?

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Because as an organism we need to reproduce to grow our population, and we reproduce through sex. We want to have sex because when we do our brain releases Dopamine which makes us feel good, just like when we eat or do any other function that helps us survive. As for your question it is both, because naturally built into our genetic code is a need to reproduce, as with any organism. If you locked two people that had no idea what sex was into a room together they would eventually end up having sex because it's what we do, physiologically we have a need for it. As for psychologically, yes we are influenced by media, the things we see and hear, and what we are taught by our parents. They both influence us on some level. But my question to you is, what does this have to do with being a PUA or improving your game?
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Thatoneguyonforums View Post
    Because as an organism we need to reproduce to grow our population, and we reproduce through sex. We want to have sex because when we do our brain releases Dopamine which makes us feel good, just like when we eat or do any other function that helps us survive. As for your question it is both, because naturally built into our genetic code is a need to reproduce, as with any organism. If you locked two people that had no idea what sex was into a room together they would eventually end up having sex because it's what we do, physiologically we have a need for it. As for psychologically, yes we are influenced by media, the things we see and hear, and what we are taught by our parents. They both influence us on some level. But my question to you is, what does this have to do with being a PUA or improving your game?
    We can be less sexually needy, we can be more patient, so we won't destroy the game by prematurely telegraphing our sexual interest.

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Its a biological primal desire. For instance, you are meant to masturbate. Animals in the wild do it all the time. It renews sperm, a biological advantage. Similarly, sex is instinctual to pass on offspring. It is all innate behavior.

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    It's really really fun...what more reason do you need? Some things don't need to be overthought.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Have you ever interrogated yourself why you want sex? Do you think your sexual desire is excessive?

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    Default Re: Why do you want sex? Have you ever thought about it?

    Regarding the physical drive: At my age I still want sex and lots of it. When I have a steady live-in GF, I do it twice a day and sometimes more. What drives me physically? I don't know, but whatever it is I'm happy I still have the drive and the ability to act on the drive. Even better, I don't need the blue pill.

    And, regarding the psychological drive: When I am attracted to a woman and we hit it off really well, intimacy becomes part of expressing ourselves to each other. Lust, chemistry and an expression of caring are all things that drive me mentally. A guess, for me, sex is a way to communicate - a strong and positive way.
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