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Thread: My problem and challenge

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    Default My problem and challenge

    I see great opportunities and I am like now is the time. Then I feel like I have nothing to say and do not approach. I don't think it is nervousness for me, but not knowing what to say or create a conversation about. Maybe you all could help me with great topics on post approaching, that will help draw out a good starting conversation. I work in a mall so it will be a great environment for me to test myself all day, and i will try any suggestions and report back on how it went. Any advice or creative ideas will be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: My problem and challenge

    Don't worry about what to say, or having a conversation right away. That's called "Building rapport".

    You don't want to do that until you've built attraction first... which is accomplished by flirting.

    Here are a couple threads for you that might help explain what I mean.

    "All about Flirting"

    And THIS ONE that demonstrates the flirting in action, instead of trying to "talk" to the girl.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: My problem and challenge

    go to 'new members introduction' => and pick the newbie guide

    worked for me

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    Default Re: My problem and challenge

    Yes i agree... the newbie guide is there for a reason. It also happens to be very well organized and full of great info on top of that.
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