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Thread: Kissing: before or after invinting to your place?

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    Default Kissing: before or after invinting to your place?

    I reckon the advantages for both are:

    BEFORE

    1. You have reached a first milestone and feel surer she's and
    2. You made it clear you're a sexual human being that doesn't want to just be friends;
    3. If she accepts to come after kissing/making out you might guess your task at home will be easier;
    4. You can feel higher (physical) connection after kissing/making out


    AT YOUR PLACE

    1. You can invite them over with a lower key approach (I'm a cool guy who doesn't make a big deal out of it)
    2. She might feel less pressure for sex with no much physical contact before (ASD are lower, it might be easier for her to accept it if nothing too "physically compromising" happened yet)
    3. You have your bed close by, no risk of attraction going down;
    4. If no kissing/making out happened you haven't showed your cards yet and the mystery/adventurous feelings are stronger ("why the hell is he inviting me over without making a move here, might as well say yes rather than risking losing him if I say no.. ")


    What's your take on this guys?
    Experience sharing also very appreciated

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    Default Re: Kissing: before or after invinting to your place?

    At this point in my game, I don't really think about this aspect too much. If I've done everything right on our first date, and I can see that she's definitely interested, I hit up the Kino. I do it pretty quickly. Say we are at dinner, and she laughs and her hands are on the table, at that point I am kino-ing. And it goes on like that and escalates throughout the night. If I've kiss closed, I take that as a sign of she will have sex with me. Now, some of you may have a goal of taking that girl home that night to have sex with her, but for me, I don't think about it. I know that if I've done it all right and I got the kiss close, I'm going to have sex with her... whether it's that night or another night (usually 2nd or 3rd time meeting). I think a lot of people get caught up with how to get a girl THAT night and neglect that if you had solid game before that, sex will come. Anyway, makes my life easier, and the girl can sense that I don't care if we are having sex that night or not.
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    Default Re: Kissing: before or after invinting to your place?

    before, I normally kiss on a first date and that should never be at your place, unless she suggests it.

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    Default Re: Kissing: before or after invinting to your place?

    Hello mate!

    The first kiss shouldn't be at your place, that would require too much intimacy, far more than the amount of intimacy you 2 would have before the first date.

    Also, kissing should occur when it feels... as going with the flow.

    Tickling and wrestling are routines that can create the intimacy and feelings required for a kiss ;-)


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