One of my friends is currently in college, and called me up. He is in a math class or something and made a statement that made me wake up.
He was like I am able to solve the problem but the concepts make no sense to me and I struggle. Then I asked if that could be his woman issue, and was like yes, I can meet girls but don't know how and what to do.
Then it came to me, I know the concepts and what to do but not how to get the end results in a good portion of the process. That moment actually helped me over the past week switch my honking and to start actually thinking more on his route and acting more hat way.

I hope this helps someone like it has me.