Re: Sexual intentions: being direct, hiding or avoiding?
I dunno lying about not trying to get with someone and then using that to trick them into a false sense of security so you can exploit their trust and have sex with them feels kind of rapey to me.
My strategy- with PUA as with all things in life- is to be completely open and honest if asked. I don't tell people I'm gaming them, mirroring, planting IOIs etc., but if they ask me something I'll tell them the answer.
"You're just saying that to make me feel better about myself."
"That's exactly what I'm doing. You deserve to feel better about yourself."
"Are you trying to seduce me?"
"Is it working?"
"You're just saying that 'cause you want to sleep with me."
"Yeah, but I also think you're a really cool person."
you are a soul playing a game of human
might as well unlock all the secret areas