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Thread: Sexual intentions: being direct, hiding or avoiding?

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    Default Sexual intentions: being direct, hiding or avoiding?

    Some advise on not answering that at all.

    Some say to go direct.

    Many people advise against hiding intentions.
    But I have a friend that always denies and keep staying close to the woman and he's very successful I would say (he says "nonono, no sex, we go for a drink, talk... ", sometimes he even jokes his penis doesn't work and then he makes the move anyway).

    Obviously it depends on occasions and on the girl, but I'd like to hear some point of views and experiences.

    When asked -and even when not openly asked actually- would you hide your intentions or would you be very direct about it?

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    Default Re: Sexual intentions: being direct, hiding or avoiding?

    I dunno lying about not trying to get with someone and then using that to trick them into a false sense of security so you can exploit their trust and have sex with them feels kind of rapey to me.

    My strategy- with PUA as with all things in life- is to be completely open and honest if asked. I don't tell people I'm gaming them, mirroring, planting IOIs etc., but if they ask me something I'll tell them the answer.

    e.g.:

    "You're just saying that to make me feel better about myself."
    "That's exactly what I'm doing. You deserve to feel better about yourself."

    "Are you trying to seduce me?"
    "Is it working?"

    "You're just saying that 'cause you want to sleep with me."
    "Yeah, but I also think you're a really cool person."
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    Default Re: Sexual intentions: being direct, hiding or avoiding?

    Obviously it works mate. That phrase about his weenie works well... why? Because he's being sexual and disqualifying himself, which in the case is a dhv. Moreover, he's putting a barrier.
    He's being kinda cocky and funny...

    Even though he's saying "we WON'T have sex", he has just make the girl picture in her mind her having sex with him.

    Do you need more reasons?


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