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Thread: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

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    Default OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    OK so this is something I never thought would happen lol. This girl at work has come out to me privately about being a lesbian. But now she is giving me IOI's which were never there. Confused? Me too lol?

    OK here are the facts...

    Girl from work, late 20's. HB 6 nice personality... funny outgoing college educated etc. Down to earth and sweet I guess. Seems like the classic stay at home suburban mom type (if she had kids and a minivan haha).

    So she starts working in my dept and she seems to want to contradict me at every turn. Its all fun and stuff. I decide pretty quickly that she is not someone I want to per sue. But my game is pretty natural so I'm certain some of it was used on her. Early on, I realize she is different than other girls. She doesn't respond like other girls. Hangs a lot by my desk but nothing else really.

    I jokingly tell her one day that "oh I get it... your into girls. That explains a lot!" Instead of a wise ass comeback, she gets all quiet and walks away. Bingo! I knew I hit something. Following months I bring up topics here and there when we're alone touching on sex (especially stuff like "do u think so and so girl is cute?" Or what type of girl do you prefer"). She has no idea of my intentions but answers seriously and openly.

    After a few months of this, I just hit her with "were you surprised that I knew?" And she opens up like a huge weight is off her shoulders. She tells me a lot and also gives me massive compliments after I explained to her that "I just read people well" and that "my game is tight" and I read her signals well. I don't explain much about IOI's but I touched on it. Mind you, she has only complimented me before this on my work performance.

    So I was riding pretty high (got double bonus because I figured out she was bi but now is strictly lez). Now here's the problem... the IOI's from her start becoming VERY strong. Touching, innuendos about us hooking up, sex talk. She was currently broken up with her longtime girlfriend. I just continue to game thinking if anything happens, it happens. These are things that she was too conservative for in the past... physically leaving my presence sometimes.

    So literally a day after all this, she gets back with the girlfriend. But the IOI's are still coming. I have been with women in relationships but they usually never bring up the BF. So I am confused. I brought up how she would be good for a guy friend of mine and that its a shame (disqualify her and me) and doing a Freeze Out. But if she is a total lesbian, why even try?

    I think that I am friend zoned but because of the actual sexual orientation issue, my game is all screwed up. I feel like her therapist now lol. Since she confided in me we talk a lot more and in hushed tones sort of like flirting but again... IS IT??? She also reciprocates kino. I understand that me being a confidant has relieved her stress a ton (because now she can feel like she doesn't have to hide who she is) so is that where this is coming from? And the really annoying thing is in front of others she jokes with them about me and her going out ... almost like she is daring me to tell everyone. But when I offered my phone number for a good work related reason (to reach me on a project while I'm away) she refused.

    So so confused... or mad I guess. I have not been friend zoned in years.
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    1 maybe she digs your feminine side
    2 she wants to know your secret to picking up chicks
    3 she may be bi-sexual and exploring her options

    Maybe you could "straiten her out a little" has she even tried?
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    Eh, it is possible she is curious but at the same time I have found some "semi-bi" girls as I like to call them tend to like to play with guys that way since they have been hurt by men before, which could be the case with her. I botched quite a few attempts, but since she refused to exchange numbers with you you are probably just a work flirt for her.
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    girls may give you numbers because they want to know you more or talk to you l8r.she knows she will definately see you again so why bother.I think too much comfort had been built and you need to take advantage of the next shots.such her hanging at your desk again making an effort to talk to you,holding eye contact or simply engaging her.

    if she teases on you guys being together just give her the look the communicates the knowiness that she wants you.

    One last thing in case you decide on another girl at work since am sure you may.take her number during after a brief interaction.

    i am sure you probably underestimated this one thats why she slipped as in has gotten this far.she kinds of likes you.so yh

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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    Thanks for the replies. You guys are all solid and have given me some things to consider that I should have seen before.

    Rep to all of you!

    I think my main issue is the new experience of it all. Just the fact that I COULD get a lez is fascinating lol. Kinda like oneitis lol.
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    If you went to bed with a lez would you wake up with 2 girls in the am?

    I see potential here.


    Added to point at least you have one thing in common you both like girls
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    Well she gave me her number today. Totally nonchalant. I was resting my eyes and she saw me and laughed. I said why not take a pic? So she did and sent it to me.

    I get the pic and say looks good blah blah lol and stuff. I was really beat today so I just said, "I guess you want me to delete your number." She was looking at her phone and gave me a loud, surprised "noooo." I told her I hope I don't have trouble with her GF because there have been problems with me and girls' BF's. She laughed and said its not a prob blah blah.

    I'm getting the feeling that she sees us as closer friends than we were before. Which is cool to me... but as I said, my game is always on so who knows ;-)
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    IMHO do not go direct bro, this has NEVER worked for me (theoretically it COULD for you). In a way you kind of need to trick her into it. Her frame is "she is a lesbian and feels no attraction towards men" so she will do and tell herself anything in her power to get out of it.

    Last piece of advice I got for ya on this one. Good luck

    EDIT: I guess I should mention I was talking about gaming lesbians/girls in relationships with other girls specifically.

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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    Well personally gaming a girl is gaming a girl. Estrogen is naturally attracted to testosterone IMHO. So my frame with this whole thing is that I naturally have qualities that women want. Whether they prefer other women makes no difference. Alpha is alpha. Hitting her emotions will cause some kind of reaction, which appears to be the case here. I fully believe I have gotten her to be curious as to what sex with me would be like, so phase of the mission is over. Phase 2 is Kino etc... no difference really from normal gaming. That's what's helped me so far. Even though I am super confused, I know that sticking to my pickup "guns" is always best.

    Here's some stuff I did with her in case anyone is interested.

    - Told her not to fall in love with me and pinky swear to it. She replied that guys fall in love with her often. So now we have a competition as to who will fall first.
    - Told her I always wanted a lez friend so I can practice my oral... even though I'm an expert at it already. She said "yeah right" to which I said we won't know unless you try/have proof.
    - She hits me a lot to which I hit her back. The only difference is when I hit her, I go progressively more sexy. First I hit her arm. Then, I poke her rib. Then I smack her thigh. Notice that she has no problem with this. She continues to hit me knowing I may very well go progressively sexier. I also hit her in the head or arm just to keep her guessing.
    - She has really opened up about her life to me in regards to her past and when she realized she was lez. Nothing like being her therapist or anything. So as a reward I told her a little thing or two about my romantic failures. Nothing too detailed. And I always tell it from the angle that I am so great now with Women because of that.
    - She also tends to follow me around now. Wondering where I went when I'm hanging with other workers on different floors and also punching out where I do and following me to the clock. I have not made a big deal about this but I will in the future. Sort of bring up how she is trying to get me to lose the bet lol.

    Oh yeah also... she dared me to bite her on the arm. She had a sweater on so I bit lightly knowing it would not leave a mark. She said that I was a pathetic biter so I bit harder. Now she has a mark lol! She told her gf she hit a door (the mark is very visible when she wears short sleeves)
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    Default Re: OK So i am being gamed by a lesbian OR AM I ? (confused)

    Bite arm, next you will bite neck ..... Then make out then lookey what happened. I swear if you get her I will thank every post you had on this article so far your game on her in my opinion radiates brilliance
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