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Thread: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

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    Default The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    WARNING I ALREADY KNOW THIS POST IS POKING A MASSIVE EFFING HORNETS NEST OF OPINIONS! I would like to hear opinions on it though just because it is bound to have good applications.

    To start off we have "bros before hoes",

    In my opinion it is a social code that states once a buddy has tagged her she is off limits. However it is just that a device limiting one from going out and taking what they want. Life is not a black and white, yes or no, right or wrong thing. Thusly bros before hoes often gets thrown when one comes up with some sort of qualifier. We have all seen it happen. It gets ugly. But to the other hand I wouldn't game a chick my friend is gaming or dating either just out of respect.


    Then we have all is "all is fair love in war"


    This one states it clearly you want it take it. If someone slips up or doesn't treat her the way she should be then you should be free to take her. This saying is often seen by others as cold because it doesn't take into consideration the feelings of others. Many people argue it as being a statement to justify being selfish.

    Neither one is right, and neither one is wrong in my honest opinion. Then again, life is not right or wrong.

    What does everyone else feel about my observations on these codes of behavior as they apply to pick up.
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    Bros before hoes is just respect, and just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. For example if your best friend breaks up with his girlfriend and then she tries to sleep with you, you don't do it, she can get laid somewhere else. Why would you want to ruin a friendship over some A$$, Doesn't make any sense. It's called having self control.

    As for the second one, I agree. But I wouldn't call it love, it's more like all is fair in Tappin A$$ and war. Basically all that is saying is there's no rules when dealing in those two areas, no bars held anything goes, you do whatever it takes to get what you want. It's a little harsh but that's life..

    As for the fact that they contradict each other, all I can say is there is always grey area. All is fair in love and war, but don't be an A$$hole about it, only you can make the call on whether or not to act on something and in the end you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. And Karma is a b1tch.
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    Exactly what I was thinking, hence why this is on the lounge just looking for other opinions. The way I see things is ok just looking for other people's opinions
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    Wow sounds like what's happening to me right now.( but she's a hoe so I'm just going to let him have her)
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    This is the way I view it as a whole.

    Yes, if your buddy picked her first. Then hands off. If he ain't treating her right, then that's not your business. Still keep your hands off.

    If she starts coming onto you (remember attraction isn't a choice) then you may want to consider telling your buddy what his girl is up to. If you don't and do something with her that is the true betrayal. Girls come and go.

    If you tell him and it still happens then, hey, you did all you could and she's still on you. What happens, happens. Just don't expect him to be happy about it. So be supportive. You didn't put hoes before bros. That would be you banged her the first chance you got. She put dick before her man.
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    Once they are in a relationship with a friend, off limits forever.

    If they have just slept together for fun or something that isn't a big deal. As long as there isn't feelings involved. I will say though I have been on both ends of this spectrum and I just try to stay away from whores now.
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    I been in this situation and my boy said I am good to go if I am interested in shagging her. Despite whatever I didnt go for it, at the end of the day as a man you need to have integrity and loyalty. So sloppy seconds is for losers.
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    Default Re: The core concept of bros before hoes, and all is fair love in war

    Question though what if you found out that your friend use to date her? But you only found out couple months after and the person who told you is her? Would you be alright dating her seriously knowing that your friend might have or might not have shagged her?
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