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    Default Solo-game vs wing buddy

    I think I'm going to be Solo-ing ALOT soon. Lately, I haven't had the greatest wingman to work with. I don't want to blame them, but how important is it to have a wingman?

    I've had some good runs lately where a few girls have invited me out on nights.

    This girl and I have been talking for a few weeks. I've been able to kiss-close few nights with her. She invited me out with her friends (ladies night). It seemed cool at first; you think you're a pimp with 4 chicks. It was fun at times. I dance with a few of her friends. However, I realize how much of a Beta I was running around and following them. Felt like I had no control of the situation and was just tagging along. Soon, I was tired of chasing them, so I stayed at the bar instead of going to another one.

    I haven't texted that chick since that night, and I don't plan to until she initiates. Recently though, another girl invited me out to hang out with her and friends. I didn't want to go solo after what had happened to me the last night I went out with a group of chicks.

    Is this all in my head? How do I handle these situations if I do solo. I know I'm not just some pushover nice guy that girls invite out. I'm charming, fun, and sociable. Do they even care that I come hang out with them by myself?

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    Default Re: Solo-game vs wing buddy

    If you search the forum say last year we have talked about it extensively. I have asked the same question.

    Look if you are sociable do you really need a wing man? I mean if she sees you chatting up with everyone like the bartender or random people whatever she will be okay with that. The whole thing is women like sociable guys because they are not as creepy and they seem fun.

    So go out there meet and greet and talk to people. And do your solo game alone and you will see the results.
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    Default Re: Solo-game vs wing buddy

    First be life of party don't be the ladies night trailer.

    Remember if you are out with a wing one of you will be more alpha then the other, so one will always get more than the other.

    Wingmen are a gift and a curse.
    As with anything use a mix of wings and also go out wingless and see what works best for you in any given situation. Also explore using a Pivot.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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