I think I'm going to be Solo-ing ALOT soon. Lately, I haven't had the greatest wingman to work with. I don't want to blame them, but how important is it to have a wingman?
I've had some good runs lately where a few girls have invited me out on nights.
This girl and I have been talking for a few weeks. I've been able to kiss-close few nights with her. She invited me out with her friends (ladies night). It seemed cool at first; you think you're a pimp with 4 chicks. It was fun at times. I dance with a few of her friends. However, I realize how much of a Beta I was running around and following them. Felt like I had no control of the situation and was just tagging along. Soon, I was tired of chasing them, so I stayed at the bar instead of going to another one.
I haven't texted that chick since that night, and I don't plan to until she initiates. Recently though, another girl invited me out to hang out with her and friends. I didn't want to go solo after what had happened to me the last night I went out with a group of chicks.
Is this all in my head? How do I handle these situations if I do solo. I know I'm not just some pushover nice guy that girls invite out. I'm charming, fun, and sociable. Do they even care that I come hang out with them by myself?