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    Default Regionality, ethnicity, etc

    Hi guys,

    I don't know if it happens in other countries, but I live in Brazil in a particular city named Curitiba - it's a city from a southern state. It's well known here that this city is considered the hardest one when it comes to picking up women from zero, eg. normally dating here is based on knowing a friend's friend and then being introduced by, being part of a circle of people, etc

    But here comes the exception ( maybe it's me ):

    - I didn't have a ton of girlfriends in the past, but the few serious I've had I did picked them up from zero on the streets and by daygame

    - They were all from other southern states

    - They were all blond and taller than me (I'm 172cm) ( southern states in Brazil are mainly colonized by europeans ) ( my ex-wife the only exception being of my same height, but still a blond and german descendent)

    - The irony is that the base ethnicity here is the same as the girls I got from the other states.

    - Believe me, I like those gorgeous brunettes and darker girls. They don't see to have much interest in me though. ( I think or maybe is my body language saying I like blond? )

    - My parents are from Japan, so my ethnicity is Asian

    - Oh, never dated an asian girl too, they too don't show interest, but I think it's because they appear to be more reserved (but I know they are not, just appearances)

    Well, I'm curious to know if in the US or any other country picking up girls could differ based on region like it is in the city I live. Have you guys experienced something similar before?

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    Default Re: Regionality, ethnicity, etc

    It's all subjective we all have our own little quirks and attractions. As a very general rule though I find people tend to be attracted to their own racial backgrounds. As a white guy, I just don't happen to find many black girls attractive but that's just me.

    Regions do affect it. For instance London, much like all big cities is very culturally diverse so people are used to socialising with other races, people are attracted to what they find comfortable thus there are more inter-racial relationships. At the end of the day I just take each girl as an individual and tailor my game to her rather than her stereotype

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    Default Re: Regionality, ethnicity, etc

    I find some cities not so much harder to game in than others....just need to calibrate differently.....for example in Lincoln where I am currently I can escalate extremely quickly in clubs and get away with it just by being direct and sure of myself.......where as in Cardiff where I'm originally from I have to escalate slower and can't get away with being as direct.......don't know whether this is just a limiting belief of my own or due to actual differences though.

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    Default Re: Regionality, ethnicity, etc

    I see what you're saying I think it's probably a confidence thing. I game much better in my home town because I feel comfortable in the surroundings but if I'm in London there are times when I'm overwhelmed by the place, it's unknown and I'm less sure.

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    Default Re: Regionality, ethnicity, etc

    Yeah it's strange though because I gamed successfully in Cardiff for a long time, then switched to Lincoln and was still doing well.....but don't get as much success when I go home anymore......think it's partly because stuck up women annoy me a lot more than they used to :P anyway back home for the summer soon so I guess I'm just going o have to get used to it again :P

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