A simple reframe of your insecurities
The basic tactic is this, you reframe your insecurity so that it doesn't matter. You get what you want in SPITE of it, but you don't let on that you are insecure about it. Basically I was like:
That is why I'm glad I'm a dude. Big women have a hard time getting hot guys, but since I'm a guy its not that hard for me to date beautiful women. They just get almost addicted to how I can make them feel that they don't even care what I look like they just want me.
The one I was gaming out of the 3 added me to facebook early on and insisted I get her number. Her friend was like "I guess I'll see you around" and stormed out so it was obvious my target liked me.
I hope this can help some of you guys get past your insecurities like being too short, too tall, or whatever it may be.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple