Re: She responds with "He's lame"
I may be well developed in my game by now, but there is still a load of more things that I still have to learn. Just today I learned about what it truly means to be the go-to guy, and now I understand the implications of doing it. I may be experienced in some areas, but there are others where there is much to be learned.
I don't feel like you should ask what a girl is looking for, because frankly no one knows what they are looking for. Have you ever looked at any of your friends, guy and girl, and they say that they want a certain kind of person, but then they go for the exact opposite? Most likely, a good bunch of your friends are like this.
If you really want an effective way of figuring out what a girl wants, there are two ways to do so. Either you can study female psychology, like I am doing, or you can observe and find a pattern in her actual tastes and preferences.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X