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Thread: She responds with "He's lame"

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    Default She responds with "He's lame"

    I was hangin out solo with my best buds GF, my bud had to leave for a little bit. Basically we farked. Lol nah jk

    Were just chillin and her ex bf texts her. She's not into it but she responds like once. He's being kinda flirty, she doesn't respond, he sends a 2nd text with a heart. No response 5 mins later he says sorry that wasn't meant for you.

    I wondered if he sent that cus she didn't reciprocate so he was trying damage control? Maybe, idk. I ask her, she says "I don't care, he's lame".

    Two things learned. One girls aren't thinking about it, they're either feeling it or not. Second she said she responds when guys are flirting but doesn't flirt back. That makes sense. Seems like a validation thing.

    Been working on my text game so it was cool to kinda be on the other side for a change. Obviously this is nothing new but i found it interesting

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    Default Re: "He's lame"

    Be careful when talking to girls about what they find attractive and how they feel about guys.....in my experience I get a lot if girls saying they'd never respond to this or that, or don't like guys doing certain things......and it turns out that they say it because that's what they think is 'cool' to say. And in reality I'm sat there thinking yeah course you don't.....and I done that exact thing to get them into bed. Lol

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    Default Re: "He's lame"

    Good point. Clearly she would say she doesn't flirt back - she's dating my best friend. Say the right thing and she'll be playing right along. And I'm sure she does.

    I believe the lame part though. She seemed genuinely disinterested. Seems the only relevant factor is whether or not she is feeling it, and if she's feeling it she will respond regardless.

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    Default Re: "He's lame"

    Yea she must've interpreted that he was trying to do damage control then saw him as weak. We shouldn't apologize or take back what we do. We do things because we want to. Simple as that.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: "He's lame"

    Yeah I like getting intelligence "from the other side" but indirectly i.e im in a room away from the girl(s) and I hear them talking or borderline eavesdropping means(not snooping but just not actively in their conversation). But you also need to have a "scope" so to speak to understand whats banter/BS and what info you need to hold onto.

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    Default Re: "He's lame"

    Lol that's coincidental because I like finding information so I ask my girl pals what they like in guys and other things like that. Some lie to me and the others tell the truth no matter what
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: She responds with "He's lame"

    Some lie to me and the others tell the truth no matter what
    that's why i come here for advice, imo lots of people combined have experienced alot more than that single or group of girls that you're asking advice from (y)

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    Default Re: She responds with "He's lame"

    I may be well developed in my game by now, but there is still a load of more things that I still have to learn. Just today I learned about what it truly means to be the go-to guy, and now I understand the implications of doing it. I may be experienced in some areas, but there are others where there is much to be learned.

    I don't feel like you should ask what a girl is looking for, because frankly no one knows what they are looking for. Have you ever looked at any of your friends, guy and girl, and they say that they want a certain kind of person, but then they go for the exact opposite? Most likely, a good bunch of your friends are like this.

    If you really want an effective way of figuring out what a girl wants, there are two ways to do so. Either you can study female psychology, like I am doing, or you can observe and find a pattern in her actual tastes and preferences.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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