Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)
I have to agree with this. It is very important that you figure as soon as possible where you want to go, as it will help you set your pace and know what you are doing. And especially with a bf, where you have to think right now about how far you are ready to go.
My question to you is what is your goal in all this? It seems that you are trying to F-close her (marking your conquest). Ok so say you do. But what then afterwards? Are you hoping that she will be so sexually addicted to you that she will be a regular bootie call? Steal her from her boyfriend and make her your gf?
Though I have to disagree with this F-closed should often be your priority. It can be difficult to achieve, it doesn't have to be your end goal, but everything gets smoother from then. You're actually not interested? Well, you can move on. You want a long term thing? Well, it will be a lot easier now that you've already had sex and you can Kino a lot more easily than before.
The reason why I bring this up is if you really like this girl (enough to steal her), then F-closing shouldn't or doesn't have to be the goal or indicator of success. If so, depending on her cultural values, this may not be that easy. Someone above mentioned that kissing and beyond means that the relationship is on a different level for these girls. You may be in for a long battle.
"I don't think we can be in a long term relationship now that we've had sex", said no woman ever
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.