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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Always think positive. A guy got her number right in front of you, and you didn't give a f* and even friended him. How badass is that? How confident is that? Who's the alpha? you're the alpha.

    I think she's "ripe ", and you need to move forward. Be more and more straightforward with your intentions, talk to her as if she was your gf, casually speak about sex, tease her about sex (hard to explain, I can give examples if you need ), constant Kino, etc..
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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    She used the word 'yummy'? I'm not really sure how much clearer it can get...stop d1ckin around and get to the bed. Women give out numbers all the time, it could've been fake, or she may have just wanted to for him to leave her alone. You did well on that, friending him. If a girl uses the word yummy she's ready to get naked. Period.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Haha - to be fair im not sure she knows what yummy means when you mention it like that. I'm still VERY physical with her. Stroking her leg, hugging, holdings hands, tracing her fingers, etc.

    Mikalichov - have you made any progress with your Korean girl? Interesting thing is I brought up dating again (amazing topic by the way if you're going for foreign girls) and she confirmed the kiss after relationship thing. When i asked if couples only kiss after they become girlfriend and boyfriend she said "of course". The dating conversation lasted quite long (she asked what couples do here and I pretty much said it depends because some guys are indecisive - contrasting with what ive been doing with her). Also, that conversation allowed me to slide my hand pretty far up her thigh and she didnt mind. Thought that might help you or anyone really. Good topic to bring up when theres enough comfort.

    However, she brought up the topic of sex for the first time and she even mentioned she's dated younger guys before. I take that as a pretty good sign im still making progress.

    Couldn't kiss close but I think i had an opportunity which I didn't take because i was talking for a while and my mouth was dry/lips chapped. Just felt unpleasant.

    Anyway, I ran the "Cube" game on her and it worked amazingly. Got her to close her eyes for the whole thing to imagine it. Could have kissed her then but i just traced her lips with my finger instead.

    I didn't tell her what the horse meant and she was really curious about it. Was going to withhold it from her for longer but she brought up sex so I tied it back to the horse (she said young, tall, strong, large - perfect description of me; hinted that she meant me). That whole thing went well.

    Anyway, I still think im making progress so ill keep going until I hit a wall.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Always think positive. A guy got her number right in front of you, and you didn't give a f* and even friended him. How badass is that? How confident is that? Who's the alpha? you're the alpha.

    I think she's "ripe ", and you need to move forward. Be more and more straightforward with your intentions, talk to her as if she was your gf, casually speak about sex, tease her about sex (hard to explain, I can give examples if you need ), constant Kino, etc..
    Actually some examples about "teasing her about sex" would be useful. Always open to new ideas.

    I'm pretty much treating her as if we're dating and I'm pretty certain she sees us as dating. When she asks how people date and I say "similar to what we've been doing" she doesn't bat an eye.

    At this stage I'm seriously considering whether i need to "confess" to get the kiss because it feels like she's completely open to me being her bf - it might just be that she cant kiss me before i become her bf (as you've heard).

    Even though we were talking about dating and she mentioned exes, she didnt mention her bf and said "if i have a bf i want him to be ..." etc. which is like she intentionally avoided mentioning her bf.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Well, I'm a strong supporter of honesty in dating, as in "just say what you think", which works surprisingly well. So as for the korean girl, I find her gorgeous and funny, and even though I can't confess to her or ask her to become my gf, because that's not something I do, I am attracted to her. So I will probably tell her something like "Listen [name], you're gorgeous and funny, and even though I am not going to confess to you or ask you to become my gf, because that's not what I do, I am attracted to you, and I am going to kiss you." Said in a very alpha and confident way of course, with your hand in her hair or on her neck, with eye/lips gazing. Feels like a confession, is not a confession, I guess that's a good compromise.

    Remember that I haven't done it yet, for personal reasons - she wants something more serious than I can give, and there is this other girl I'm more attracted to - so take it with a grain of salt, I haven't tested it yet. And it has to come in the conversation - talking about relationships is a good start, like asking her "what if the guy asking you to be his gf is not sincere? Isn't it better someone who tells his feelings directly?"

    Again, high risk / high reward. I think of it that way: if she doesn't reply positively, even though she is saying all this stuff, and seeing you all the time, well, she would never have said yes. So at least you're not spending time running after a girl who would have never gone with you anyway.

    Now, for some teasing examples... Ok, I tried, but nothing I wrote seemed right out of context. Stuff like her saying "I won't bite you, I promise", and you being "too bad, I like when a girl bite me". Or stuff like "size doesn't matter you know? except for sex." or "I would invite you at my place, but I always sleep naked, you're not ready yet", or when she compliments you on your body: "hey, you're not interested only in my body I hope? I have a personality too, you know ", and so on. Basically, casually making kinky jokes, without overdoing it (avoid "that's what she said", or "I hve big hands, and everything is proportional, wink wink"). That's how I do it, because I'm a very sassy/witty guy, and that's what I look for in a girl, so adapt it to your personality
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    I like the "i have a personality too" and "i sleep naked but you're not ready yet". Might incorporate those, thanks!

    I'm going to go with my half-confession this saturday if I get a good mood going. Will let you know how that turns out. I have the confidence to say potentially beta things to her because I think i manage to get away with it due to my body language and size.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Update: She flaked saturday but i saw her at the gym sunday and told her to hang out with me after we worked out. She had something on that night but she said she could come for an hour. Ended up being 2 hours. Asked her in Korean - she loved it. "Shigan isso?" (do you have time - it's also a common pickup line).

    Took her somewhere secluded and just sat and chatted with her. More about dating and relationships. Still doesn't mention her bf. Pretty much said that in Korea a couple only becomes official after the guy tells her he likes her and she "accepts" his feelings.

    Hinted a lot about me being her bf and it seemed to go over well so I'm going to tell her i like her this sunday. She promised she would see me.

    We're both starting a diet together. When i texted her that night she wanted to make a bet with me. Whoever ends up with the best looking stomach wins. If i lose she wants to get me drunk (i told her ive never been fully drunk). I was a bit vague about what i wanted but she seemed pretty ready for anything so I ended up saying "if i win, you have to sleep with me for one night". She said ok - sleep sleep but hey ... some part of her knows im not being that innocent right?

    Anyway, signs are all good. Going for it this weekend.

    For anyone in the future here's a few things that worked really well for me:

    1. Verbal games (cube, etc.)
    2. Withholding information ("I'll tell you next time")
    3. All Kino
    4. Tying relationship/sexual things to me in some way (hinting that whatever she said applies to me or is indicative of me)
    5. BEING UNIQUE. She's said so many times that I'm very different and interesting. I am naturally a bit of a nerd so I like to contrast deep insight with light humour to make my personality seem very complex.

    Hoping for the best this weekend. Getting a bit nervous again as I've run out of good date ideas (all ideas welcome - i need some kind of activity because she always has fun with those).

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Quick post, but minigolf, visiting a pet shop are nice ideas. Check also for what outdoor events are going on in your city
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Unfortunately minigolf is far from the city and i dont have a car lol. Plus she works until the arvo so i only ever see her after 4pm.

    I'll figure something out. Maybe aquarium.


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