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Thread: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

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    Default This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Let me tell you a story.

    I met this girl a couple of weeks ago. Easily HB8.5, awesome personality, 200% my type, and leaving the country in a week.

    I have been on really great dates with her, but never managed to close, as she always shuts everything down at the end, very frustrating, but I knew it was part of the game.

    And tonight, as I was setting up a pizza date with her for next week near my place, she suddenly goes "actually I was drinking beer with my friends, and I want pizza now! I'll be there in an hour!"

    So. It is midnight. She is probably a bit drunk. The pizza place and all public transportation close at 1am. There will be nothing else to do than just go to my place. She knows it, I know it, and we basically just agreed on "let's go to my place and make out". This is the best setting ever.

    I then tell her to call me when she gets there, make my place ready for the booty, get myself ready for the booty, and lie down just a bit. And fall asleep.

    I had the most exhausting weekend ever (12 hours of driving in a day, 10 hours of various sports stuff, slept maybe 6 hours total), and just had the deepest nap.

    I woke up at 4am, to a bunch of missed calls and "Where are you?" texts.

    And now I feel awful. This is the stupidest mistake I've ever done, and I feel like slapping myself in the face.

    Just wanted to share the story, but if anyone has tips to fix this, they're more than welcome.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Ahahahaha! Classic. Just be like "My bad, I had a horrendously tiring weekend and I passed out as soon as I got through the door. I'll make it up to you before you leave". The fact she's texting and calling is a good sign.

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    Default Re: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Might work in your favour. shows a little more investment in yourself than in her which is an attraction trigger. go with Lunchbox and see how she responds

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    Default Re: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Well, we have a date tonight

    I apologized, which is something I reserve only for when I seriously screw up. Not profusely, not doing too much, just admitting that "Yeah, I'm messed up, and I'm sorry, I'll make up for it"

    She said I didn't have to, she knew how tired I was, and it was ok. I said I was not that sorry, because I actually had a really great sleep (which is true, it was the best sleep ever, and a bit of teasing is always good)

    And later, I told her I would come pick up after her classes and we would get ice cream, my treat, and voila

    And as a bonus, I know have a great story to tell about how I slept through a booty call haha
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    Default Re: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Well, we have a date tonight

    I apologized, which is something I reserve only for when I seriously screw up. Not profusely, not doing too much, just admitting that "Yeah, I'm messed up, and I'm sorry, I'll make up for it"

    She said I didn't have to, she knew how tired I was, and it was ok. I said I was not that sorry, because I actually had a really great sleep (which is true, it was the best sleep ever, and a bit of teasing is always good)

    And later, I told her I would come pick up after her classes and we would get ice cream, my treat, and voila

    And as a bonus, I know have a great story to tell about how I slept through a booty call haha

    Excellent! Case closed. Only thing is, I wouldn't have offered to pay but then it might work in your favour.

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    Default Re: This is the stupidest mistake you will ever hear about

    Yeah, I thought about it before deciding I would invite her. I usually follow the "don't pay for everything" thing, but I see it more as a guideline than as a strict rule

    It's usually valid, because paying for everything just because she's hot, or because she agrees to hang out with you is a huge dlv, and very needy. You wouldn't pay everything for a male friend just because he's there.

    But in that case, I have something to apologize for, and it is just an ice cream, so it's not a really big deal. Same way that I would probably buy a beer to a male friend if I messed up something bad

    The "don't pay for everything" is a guideline to interact with her as you would interact with a normal person. So in a situation where the normal interaction would be to pay, it makes more sense to pay than not to
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.


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