Hi I'm new and thought I'd drop a post to see what advice I get from a situation that is driving me crazy.
I'll probably get some backlash too as it pretty much has 3 don't do's in it but hey.
Golden Rule breaker 1: She works for me. As in same office reports directly to me.
Golden rule breaker 2: She is in a long term relationship and is engaged.
Golden rule breaker number 3: I am married with kids.
Ok I guess you can slap me now! However there is something between us. We have been getting closer over the last few months and this came to a head when we "made out" as our American cousins call it on two separate occasions.
We message each other 50-80 times every day including weekends but she says she loves her fiancee and doesn't want to cheat???
She is attracted to me and has even said it would be too easy to have an affair but she is not that type of girl.
When we are together even just sat in the office there is something there.
So aside from "don't do it you will wreck your life" is there any advice out there?
By the way she is smoking hot too. :-)