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Thread: Can you go to nightclubs if you can't dance?

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    Default Re: Can you go to nightclubs if you can't dance?

    do you have to dance to talk to women? obviously not, you can even get a girl to try and "teach you how to dance" at a night club. even though i am fairly good at dancing, i once had a girl ask me to dance, to wich i replied "you should know by now i dance like a white boy, maybe you can show me some moves" needless to say she grinded on me for almost a half an hour before she had to leave with her friends.

    its only a disadvantage if you allow it to be

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    Default Re: Can you go to nightclubs if you can't dance?

    Damn it. My worst fear has materialized tonight: Dancing... And I think I blew it

    I was invited to a spanish wedding tonight with a relative. I'm new and just moved into this city last week. I'm half spanish/white, but I'm really light skinned and most people think I'm more white than anything. Also, my spanish isn't that great and I can't dance, which most latin's are naturals at. Everyone was speaking spanish, very loud salsa style music was playing and there was cute girls dancing. I couldn't be any further away from my comfort zone to be honest.

    So being in AFC mode, I just kind of sat around trying to beat my head to the music and trying to look upbeat. My relative left me to dance and have fun (thanks a lot). I was getting lots of looks from these cute girls, but I couldn't dance nightclub style, high energy, jumping up and down stuff. F*ck! After a while two cute HB's waved at me to dance with them, so I mustered every bit of manhood and courage I could and walked over to them. I must have looked like a total AFC, because there were other guys that were pretty good dancers around them, but I just rolled with it and joked that they would have to show me how to dance. I danced (if thats what you can call it) with them for the rest of the song and went back with my relative.

    I felt a slight bit of satisfaction that I actually walked over and danced with them; before I would've just said no thanks and been a boring AFC. I still feel like sh1t though because I felt like an idiot dancing. It felt so un-natural to me to move like that. It wasn't really crowded and my horrible dancing felt so exposed.

    I know this sounds weird, but I feel like I would've felt more comfortable in a crowded night club with girls grinding up on me and being slightly buzzed from some alcohol.

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    Default Re: Can you go to nightclubs if you can't dance?

    You were in your own head, that's all that is. It's not that hard to tell if someone can dance or not, so they probably already knew. Here's a little story. I'm a light skinned black guy who can't really dance, but people think I can dance because the aura I admit is one of someone who is comfortable with them self, and doesn't mind having a good time even if you make an ass of yourself. I couple of months ago a Spanish girl took me to a tamborazzo. Keep in mind I'm black, I didn't know what the fuck a tamborazzo was. So I get there and a bunch of Mexicans are dancing to the music and she joins in. After observing for like 5 minutes, I took my rightful spot on the dance floor and owned it. Was it because I knew how to do the dance? Hell no, I didn't know what the fuck to do. It's just because although I didn't know what you do, I was having fun and I was comfortable with making myself look like an ass. And guess what happened? Even til this day whenever I see her she dhv's me to her hot Hispanic friends about how cool I am, and how I was tamborazzo dancing. Which has greatly worked in my favor

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    Default Re: Can you go to nightclubs if you can't dance?

    Your right. I know I can't dance and they knew it too. If I would've not a gave sh1t and just had fun, I would have been in a different Mindset. I remember reading about Richard De La Ruina's friend. They would go to nigh clubs and he would do a dumb looking dance for fun, he would then see which girls laughed and he would point their way jokingly and approach them, because he was comfortable making a fool of himself, which made him look more confident.


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