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    Default Is she into me if she did this?

    Let me give you a little background so everyone knows what's going on.

    I moved to a new city last thursday and I'm staying with a family member and her two room mates until I get on my feet and get my own place. In the meantime I've been meeting some of their friends. A couple of days ago, one of their friends heard I moved here and wanted to meet me. She's 25 if I remember. We get introduced and talk for about a half an hour and she left.

    Today she came over again, just to hang out or something. I had my laptop out and everything is auto logged in, including my Facebook page. I had to go meet someone to pick up a sim card, so I just left my laptop on and took off with my relative and the other room mate. The 25 year old HB stayed with the other room mate. After I got back she was gone. I picked up my laptop, which was still on, it was on her Facebook page and it said I sent her a friend request. Obviously, I'm assuming she's the one that used my FB page to send a friend request to her.

    This is the second time I've seen her, so we don't even know each other. The slight PUA in me is thinking she's interested in me. (Oh, she just accepted my friend request that she sent to herself as I'm writing this!)

    Another side note is that I went to charity event two days after I arrived and befriended a guy who I was helping and another guy who was there. One guy said if he was my age (23) and looked as good as me he wouldn't settle for any woman under a 9 looks wise. He also said women in this city are incredibly aggressive and I'll probably be approached a lot. I laughed it off thinking he was just being cool and nice, but the other guy that was helping with the event said I had the looks to get into modeling and could probably hook me up with some people that could get me into it.

    It's a cool confidence boost and I'm excited about finally being able to practice some of the PUA things I've learned on this site in this new city I'm in.

    What do you guys think about the 25 HB though? I'm still new to PUA, I haven't been able to really practice that much were I used to live.

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    She is interested. At least a 5 out of ten. Play it cool. Turn your FB chat on, and leave it on, see if she starts a conversation. Don't like or comment on any of her pics and shit.

    Or next time you see her, ask her about it, but maybe not in front of everyone, she may get embarrassed, then just say, I'm not on there too much, it would be better to chat on the phone.

    Get her number, but don't talk on the phone for more than 5 minutes, set a date, and take her out. Or see if she wants to go for a quick coffee the next time she is over.

    But I would say she likes you. Even if she is being friendly cuz your new to town, you already got a new friend. win-win.

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    I figured she was into me too. The other thing I forgot to mention is when she was over, she was talking to the other room mates and she came back into the living room and sat down next to me. She said she used my cologne with a kind of teasing tone and asked me how it smelled on her. She then exposed her neck a little so I can lean in and smell it.

    I haven't seen her and I haven't FB messaged her either; neither has she. I don't want to come off as needy, so I'm just going to go on doing my thing and wait until I see her again or if she messages me.

    I have another question though. Next time I see her or she messages me, I was thinking of teasing her, saying something like, "That was a sneaky way to friend me on Facebook." Since she used my already logged in FB account, but I want to do it jokingly or in flirty way.

    You guys have any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    Update.

    She called my relatives room mate and asked to talk with me. She invited me to go to play tonight that her cousin is acting in. I agreed and she mentioned she wants to go to a girl friends home afterwards for icecream.

    Should I tease her about sneakily friending me on FB? I dont want to be the same kind of AFC I've been before and get friend zoned.

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    It is cool that she asked you out. I wouldn't bring up the facebook unless she does, and maybe play it like you didn't notice.

    I suggest getting together before the play, like at least 2 non rushed hours, so you can chat and build rapport. A play is like a movie, you sit there and don't get to know each other. If you see her before hand, you can chat, and get some Kino, so during the play, if you make physical contact it isn't "first date awkwardness".

    The ice cream thing, I don't know Bro. You are just getting to know her. It could suck, maybe 3 people, you her and her friend. If they kind of have their own thing going on, you'll be third wheel. If more people are there, you might get cock blocked. You just met this chick and it's a first date, keep it one on one.

    Maybe keep the date short. Build enough kino and attraction, and 100% kiss close when you say good night. Doesn't have to be open mouth tounge, but this girl likes you, you know that, so go in for the kiss. But build up to it.

    As your walking and talking, playfully take her hand and spin her around as if you were ballroom dancing, give her a light slap on the but, and tell her she is a brat. It is playful and harmless. If it is going good, and you feel you have her, as in she is touching you, getting close, holding your hand, just drop the "Bring your lips over her and give me a kiss". She may hesitate, but don't back down. If she declines, she is not feeling things.

    I read your post about her putting on your cologne. This girl sounds like she is not shy. There is a Phil Collins song from the 80's called "Easy Lover". This girl sounds like the type of girl he is singing about.

    I wouldn't rush into anything serious with her. Just have fun.

    Keep us updated Bro.

    But 100% kiss close, she will see you as a confident guy, not an AFC.

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    I was hoping tonight was gonna be bad a$$ and worthy of it's separate field report thread, where I could brag about having my first threesome, but things didn't pan out exactly the way I thought they were going to go, but I still gained some valuable info on two HB's

    Here's my report:

    As we were going to the play she mentioned her cousin who is 19 was going to be there and she said she was cute, hinting at me she wanted us to meet. The other thing that through me off, is that she invited me to church tomorrow. I felt like she was trying to convert me and maybe that was the reason she invited me. We arrive at the play I pay for my entrance and follow HB to sit down; she waves at some family, her uncle, aunt and cousins, including the cute 19 HB she mentioned (I'll call the cousin HB8 and the girl I came with HB7 from now on). She wasn't lying, she's blond and hot! She introduces me to everyone. The aunt and HB7 start talking to me about the cell phone service I signed up for since you can get paid for referring people. After a while HB8, which was a couple of seats away, asked what we were talking about. No one responded to her, so I just said, "Cell service", with a kind of I-know-it's-boring smile.

    Easyflow was right about not really being able to talk during the play, so there really isn't nothing much to say except I got a couple of eye contact glances from HB8 every once and a while and HB7 rubbed her leg against mine a couple of times and left it there, but it was so subtle that I don't even know if it was an IOI or not.

    After the play we were outside and HB7 said we were leaving; HB8 wanted to come with us. HB8 asked my name and was giving me IOI's in the form of preening her hair. HB7 decided to just to go back to the house I was staying at and eat the ice cream we had there, since she knew my woman room mate well. The problem is, I thought the guy room mate who is in his late 50's/early 60's was going to be gone tonight; he wasn't. She said she thought he wasn't going to be here tonight either and acted like it got in the way of her plans. This guy is always trying to hit on young chicks, which kind of gets them uncomfortable. It sucks, even though I get along with him well.

    We arrive, she checks the freezer like she lives there and pulls out the ice cream. We all get a small bowl and BS a bit, she then asks me to bring out my guitar to here me play. I do, I play a little bit, see some IOI's from HB8, then cockblock comes out (male room mate). HB7 introduces him to her cousin. He then try's hitting on her, asking her age, which she reply's, 18 (I thought she was 19, but whatever). He says, "Perfect, I love young woman." He then goes off on a rant about dating young woman and asking her to come to California with him. He talks incessantly without letting anyone else speak.

    After a while, they decide to leave. It f*cking sucks, I'm certain if the male room mate wasn't there, I would've at least had a make out... but it wasn't all in vain. The male room mate said HB7 used to be into sex, alcohol and partying and just got back into church stuff recently after they left. Also he asked HB8 if she went to church and she said no. He also said HB7 brought friends in their 20's back to the house after a night of partying and being drunk, which he made out with.

    He said they left this time because she was being protective of her cousin from him. HB8 also said she had a boyfriend when he asked her, but I'm wondering if she just said that because he was creeping her out.

    She acted like she had plans when she arrived to the place I was staying and looked kind of irritated that the male room mates car was there. My relative and woman room mate were going to be gone for the whole night and she and I knew it. I think I still have a chance with either HB8 or HB7 though, but damn it, she caught me off guard with the church invitation and I agreed. I f*cking hate going to church, but now I don't really have a choice.

    Sorry for the long post... I really appreciate the time guys spend to read long post like this and give tips.

    EDIT: forgot to mention that we swapped phone numbers while we were at the play.

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    Default Re: Is she into me if she did this?

    Ok, as I mentioned before, she invited me to church, so today she stopped by and stayed for about 15 minutes getting her hair fixed. She drove me there, since I didn't know where it was. She introduced me to some friends and there were several other HB's I heard whispering to her to introduce them to me.

    There was a LOT of kino from her and her friend. One of her friends arrived a little late and HB7 pulled me really close to her so her friend can sit on my left side. She then pushed me over a little, so we weren't touching. HB7 and her hot friend kept passing stuff to eachother; when they did, they put there a whole body on top me, with their boobs pressed tight against me. Her friend had her purse by my feet and she leaned over and reach between my legs, rubbing the inside of my leg everytime. She then apogized after a couple of times of doing this, while rubbing my leg. With this much kino, I was starting to get a hard on, during church services of all places

    After the whole church thing, while she was driving me back, she opened up about a car crash she was involved in and how she thought she needed to get back to church after all her partying. She also mentioned how she's staying with her uncle and cousins and how she was trying help her cousins, including the hot HB8 I mentioned in the previous post. She mentioned trying to help HB8 with "boy problems" and said she doesn't want to say much in case HB8 and me start hanging out. She said this with a big smile.

    I listened intently and agreed to what she was saying without interrupting much.

    We were parked at the place I'm staying and we finished our convo. I didn't go for the kiss because she sounded like she wants me to be with her cousin, but I'm confused because of all the kino and IOI's she was giving me. Also I didn't know how she would react to a kiss after church. I feel a dumb a$$ AFC right now. There was that awkward silence where I felt like I should've just went in for kiss, but I was too into my head, trying to interpret what was going on.

    I don't even know what to do now. She wants me to keep coming to church, but I dont really want anything to do with this religion (Mormonism). Damn it, I just want to party and get laid! My first experience of trying to use the PUA stuff I learned on here in a new city isn't working. Instead of getting laid, their trying to convert me to a strict religion! Lol


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