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    Default "I have a BF": make it clear you're no friend or get them out?

    I was wondering, one can find himself in situations where a girl is interested in you and possibly in meeting again but says "I have a BF".

    Would it be better to make it clear you're not in for a friendship or would it be better to get her out and try to change her mind once out?

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    Default Re: "I have a BF": make it clear you're no friend or get them out?

    Whoa you can never try to just make her get out of her relationship, that's when she would probably get defensive about her bf and you'll lose. Use bf destroyers to get her stop thinking about her bf and make you have more value than her bf
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: "I have a BF": make it clear you're no friend or get them out?

    Well, from my experience it depends how she says it, it can go two ways:

    You: "Blablabla, and I love wine tasting, we should do it one of these days"
    Her: "Oh, my bf loves wine, so I go to a lot of wine atsting, blablabla"

    She has a bf, and she is serious about it. She put it in a smooth conversation, without stopping the flow, and it relates to a real event. A bf destroyer is not impossible, but keep in mind she is in a serious relationship.

    You: "Blablabla, and I love wine tasting, we should do it one of these days"
    Her: "I have a bf."

    I call bs, and shit test. She most likely isn't in a relationship, and is just trying to push you away (because not interested, or to test you, or both)
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    Default Re: "I have a BF": make it clear you're no friend or get them out?

    Im feeling this, just recently I opened a set at a bar, it was four girls, ranging from HB5-HB8, nothing serious (ill post the field report soon). Now, I went in with an opinion opener they all bit on, long story short we all ended up bar hopping before I made my dedication to the one I thought the most interested and interesting. As we stood at the bar engaging in small talk the only one with a boyfriend made it a point to be sure I knew several details about her situation. She says :
    1. "I've never been with a black man before, but that doesn't mean Im not attracted to them."
    2. "yea I have a bf, but he doesn't live here."
    3. "I don't get out much because of school, plus I live about 45 minutes away from here."
    4. "he doesn't, (the bf), have a job or anything, but yea I know its my fault, but I'm still with him...right?"
    5. "Im not drinking tonight on our girls night out Ill probably just drop them home and make the long trip back afterwards."

    My issues? I really felt like I let this one slip through my fingers, she stayed close when her friends ran around, she took my advice on small things, like she was wearing a hat and I said "either wear it backwards or take it off and put your hair up, you look so uptight", seconds later she was returning from the bathroom with her hair up. There was so much there with the exception of kino and blatant IOIs that I went for her friend for the eventual Number Close.

    You think I missed out on this one, or was I over analyzing things?
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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