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    Default Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Recently, I've been chatting with my alpha female friend about relationship dynamics. You know, deep and juicy topics.

    And she was kind enough to spill her secrets on how she attracts men and how she closes them.

    Now, I don't say the following small article applies to each and every girl. But I'm confident that most girls use similar techniques to attract men whether applying them conscious or not.

    Let me be clear though, this article is not about "how men should be to attract women, from a woman's perspective". This is not about us at all, gentlemen. This is solely about a girl selecting her target and working him over.

    Yes, they do select targets. But that doesn't mean you can't pick up girls that have targets different than you. You just gotta replace those guys by being alpha enough. You probably have done this many times without even noticing. Because it's that easy.

    Jumping back to our topic, interestingly, women pretty much do the same things we do when picking up. Just with slight differences. Doesn't make sense? We're getting there.

    So without further ado, I present you the pick up process from a woman's perspective.

    The following is exactly from her mouth, I didn't paraphrase.

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    Initial Meeting / First Impressions

    First impressions are very important. It might determine the whole outcome of the interaction, and it usually does.

    When I select my target, my first weapon is the looks I give. Most girls have these looks but they don't know when or how to use them. Actually, it's all about being subtle. I quickly plant the seeds of doubt and make him think like: "Is she hitting on me?"

    But I never give it away. He can't know that I'm interested, at least when we first meet. If he does, game over.

    He has to feel special with the way I look at him. He has to feel that I care about him, that I'm interested in what he's saying or doing, just enough though.

    One more thing, I love using over-the-shoulder look. I've read a research that says, when women give over-the-shoulder look, it arouses men. They feel a Tension and it immediately draws their attention, subconsciously.

    Further Interaction

    If I feel like he's suspecting that I'm into him, I immediately pull myself back. I stop talking to him, even stop looking at him, and I'll just wait for him to come to me.

    Now here comes a test. As he comes to me, I give him a look that says: "Why are you even here? I didn't want you to come." If this look scares him and he goes away, that means he failed. If he stays, he has proven himself and I'll move on to the next step.

    Comfort Stage

    I find some topic that he's interested in and we start to chat about it. But again, I can't appear too interested. However, I have to seem interested enough to keep him engaged. If these little talks go well, he'll eventually want to meet me, as a date. If he's too dumb to propose a date, I'll drop hints like: "I think we should talk these somewhere else." Obvious enough? If he still doesn't go for it, it means he's a rotten apple, not gonna happen.

    First Date

    I think the location is very important. Personally, I'd prefer a peaceful place to talk to get to know each other. But this just isn't enough. We have to get physical at sometime to get him to kiss me, right?

    So the date should be divided into at least two locations. Start with sitting down and talking and then doing some activity. Maybe bowling or pool.

    The looks are still important. Even if we're on an exclusive date, I still need to make him feel special with the looks I give, in order to keep his attention on me.

    Physical contact on the date might be the most important thing. I can't get that contact by being an attention whore. For example, we're playing pool and I want to initiate the contact. I never say things like: "Gosh this is too hard, I wonder if you could teach me?...Wow you're an amazing teacher!"

    Instead, I appear embarrassed as I suck at pool and when he tries to help, I'll be too proud to accept his help first. Just to challenge him. Eventually, I let him teach me and that will initiate the physicality.

    When the touch happens, I never focus too much on it. I act like it happened all naturally. But still, I need to make him feel like that touch was important. So I keep a tension there, again, just enough. Keep him guessing.

    Going for the First Kiss

    In my opinion, first kisses should not wait for too long. First date is a long enough wait already. I have 3 ways to go for a kiss.

    If he's a shy dude, I go in close and brush my cheek or nose against his lips, pull back and repeat until he goes for the kiss. Make him crave.

    If the dude is too proud to take the first step, I just go in and kiss him. But I make sure he's not gonna like that kiss, to give him a taste of punishment. It's gonna be a dirty kiss, nothing romantic or hot.

    If he wants to kiss me but doesn't know if I'm ready for it, I make a small chat and drop hints that he should kiss me.

    While Kissing

    If he's a nice guy and likes the "clean" girl type, I appear like I don't know much about kissing. I act all surprised during the kiss.

    If he isn't experienced in kissing, I make him feel like he's in control and all, to boost his confidence. But instead, I'll be in the driver seat and he won't suspect a thing.

    If he is good at kissing, it's showtime. I catch him off guard and do nasty things with my tongue.

    Seduction / Going for Sex

    It's all about using the body. I always keep him wanting. Don't show everything at once. Little bit cleavage. Sneak peeks. I'm never too embarrassed or too open.

    But sometimes it is okay to go crazy and just attack him. It makes things unpredictable and exciting.

    When I make my move and he enters that state of mind and tries to kiss me, I just block him. It makes him even want me more.

    General Aspects

    It's all about being a classy intelligent lady in public and getting nasty and dirty in bed. This contrast drives my men crazy all the time.

    Keep him guessing, keep being challenging. It's not all about mushy mushy love. He'll also be my friend. And as his friend I have to compete with him, challenge him.

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    Overall, she calibrates herself to stay in the middle. She's never too open or too closed. She's never too interested or too disinterested. She always displays a fine level of attraction to keep her man engaged and occupied with her.

    However, she never stops being a challenge. She never gives herself up too easy. She always keeps guys wanting and craving.

    It's much like the things we do, bros. Push and pull, never stop being a challenge.

    I hope this "little" article gives you some fresh ideas and new perspectives.

    Have fun and feel free to comment!
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Excellent post bro! It was very insightful, while giving a fresh view on how woman try to pick guys.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Wow! Great post! Thanks for sharing. Would you mind telling us what kind of girl she is? She kinda sounds as a player and extremely confident to me, but you make it sound like most girls are pretty much like this to some extend. Neither would surprise me.

    The amount of tests she consciously throws amazes me. Makes me realize I've been holding back wwaayy too much!! She talks as if she picks up men, but the things she does are more like: "seeing if he's got the balls to pick her up".

    Note to self: balls. ;->

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Quote Originally Posted by MajorThird View Post
    Wow! Great post! Thanks for sharing. Would you mind telling us what kind of girl she is? She kinda sounds as a player and extremely confident to me, but you make it sound like most girls are pretty much like this to some extend. Neither would surprise me.
    Good thing you wondered.

    Her confidence is off the charts. But she's not really the player type. She enjoys flirting with different people now and then but she is in a steady, 3 year old relationship.

    His boyfriend is not too alpha. Not too chump either. He knows that she enjoys flirting with other people but they have this unbreakable trust between them. At the end of the day, they just love each other.

    Actually, I was surprised when I realized she has this much game in her. I mean, dating with the same guy for 3 years? You'll get rusty at some point.

    But here's the good part. She still uses these techniques in her relationship. She still challenges her bf. She still makes him guess, doubt, crave.

    And I think there's a lesson for us to learn here. No matter how much time we spend in a relationship, no matter how close we know a girl, we still have to keep things exciting. We still have to tease her, challenge her, surprise her like it's day one...
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Great read!

    As I was reading though I couldn't stop but proving some disgust at this manipulative behaviour ("if he is.. I am").

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Fantastic article!

    It was at this point I new she wasn't just talking bs.
    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    Eventually, I let him teach me and that will initiate the physicality.
    I mean, it doesn't get much more psychological than that and she has a rout for every variable.
    I wish I was little bit taller
    I wish I was a baller
    I wish I had a girl who looked good
    I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Hahahaha, god, I laughed so much, that was beautiful, thanks for sharing.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    This is a great look at how women pick-up guys. I especially like how she talkes about how most girls don't know how to use their looks or use methods like Push-Pull. This really points out how to tell when your dealing with an Alpha Female.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Very interesting read. I've known one alpha female with mad confidence.

    Also, my ex was somewhat an alpha female but she was a natural seductress. She was a pro at Push Pull and really understood how the male mind worked.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female: This is How She Does Pick Up

    Excellent post.

    It is good to look at pick up from the female perspective. There could possibly even be some things men can learn from in pick up, specifically "a classy intelligent lady in public and getting nasty and dirty in bed."


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