I was thinking that somehow the most respected and taken seriously people in most societies seem to be monogamous that don't sleep around, don't put girls high in their priorities and that often have solid families and/relationships around them.
Merkel/(most)US presidents: all in monogamous relationships with their "beautiful" families. All respected individual people listen to.
Berlusconi , sleeping around, a joke to most European counterparties;
Gheddafi: moving around with an army of amazons to entertain him, considered an idiot the whole world over (friend of Berlusconi, maybe not by accident)
Warren Buffet: married a 60YO woman that her ex wife introduced to him, all 3 were good friends and possibly only had these 2 women;
Ben Bernanke, current president of the FED, one long term wife two children;
Alan Greenspan , former FED president, 2 wifes, certainly not the kind of guy you'd imagine sleeping around.
Henry Paulson: former CEO of Goldman Sachs and Secretary of the Treasury during the financial crisis, one long term wife met in college.
These are some of the most respected people whom you could hear talking.
It's hard to think of any highly respected person who places women (plural) high in his list, sleeps around and moves on frequently with relationships.
Of course if you think hard there'll be a few, but disproportionately the people that command the most respect and that are hold in the highest regards seem to have solid, long term relationship lives and don't bed hop even when they could do so very easily (because of fame, money etc.)
I think there are several reasons for it, but I'd like to hear your opinion.