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Thread: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

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    Default Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    I must ask in a situation where I took it to a solo venture from a wingman who struck out early in the opening of the set, I ran into an issue. I was able to attract a nice group and keep them going for a while throughout the night, the problem I ran into was the isolation of one in which all of them had some type of interest in me, (I've mentioned this before in a recent post but haven't found time to put together the complete field report) heres the quick breakdown:

    My opener was a simple opinion on the attraction and preference of black men within a group of 4:

    1. HB8 Brunette, the only one out of the group who had previously dated a black guy, was interested, acted as if since she had the most experience she was the obvious choice. (ended up as my target)

    2. HB7 Blonde, the obvious ringleader, was unhappy with her position at the end of the night she's the one who ended everything prematurely. (thinking I should've went with her.)

    3. HB8.3 Blonde, the only one with a BF, throughout the night she gave me looks and pity stories about her situation, wanted to make me feel sorry I guess. One thing she did in particular was explain how she rarely went out and lived states away from her man...(hmm)

    4. HB 6, the Redheaded mutt of the group, very quite and coy, could've been the freak.

    My issue with this was the inability to show enough attention to the whole set, the ringleader at one point asked me to introduce her to a guy she seen me high five, but he was unable to cut the mustard.

    How to better handle these types of situations? I have no problem isolating in the event I pluck one from the group, but this group tailed us, here and there, I kind of felt like it was a challenge for them all and the majority wanted an opportunity.

    Advice?
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    Default Re: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    I typically just pick one. You did your job and made the whole group like you, but there has to come a point in time where you just make your intentions clear and pick one. I do it all the time, and if all the girls like you, it won't fail.

    I usually say something along the lines of, "all of you girls just looking farking amazing, but I'm really attracted to hispanic women(describe some characteristics that are unique to your target), so I'm going to steal her for a little while." The more unique the girls are in the group the less you have to say. So in your situation since it sounds like they all looked fairly different. You could have said, "all of you look simply ravishing, but I have this thing for brunettes, so I'm going to steal her for like 3 minutes." At this point just take her and go. If you get resistance from the other girls, you can just Number Close and leave, and reopen later if you feel like it.

    I don't like sticking around groups of women, especially when solo because other girls in the group tend to want to start cock blocking. So I try to Isolate, even if it's for only 5 minutes.

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    Default Re: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    With those, you have to take the role as the ring leader. Talk to each of the girls to dhv, so none of them feel left out. It also shows your target you're not just trying to get to know her but also a fun/ social guy.
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    Default Re: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    He did that. I think he was asking how to progress afterwards. Especially, since the group got somewhat attached to him.

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    Default Re: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    Usually, the other girls get the memo and will break off. Lilsting's advice is really good.

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    Default Re: Issues satisfying a set while SOLO. Advice please

    Thanks.for the advice here, I nver thought about becoming the ring leader myself. I can run through the many ways this scenario.could have gone, went with my gut which was tobe cconservative in an effort to gauge the group. I know next time though. thanks
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