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Thread: Push/Pull Problem

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    Default Push/Pull Problem

    I've been trying to push pull a girl. She's british. It's a challenge because I can use negs. They don't affect her. If I push, she'll push back. If I pull, she'll pull back just a little bit.

    We talk mostly through text. She seems pretty shy. I'm a college guy. She's kissed me before, her excuse is, she was drunk and she doesn't remember, but she's comfortable about it. She knows I'm attracted to her physically.

    I'm thinking I have to use few NLP techniques to close it with anything. You know, appeal to her womanly emotive side that desires a little more of an emotional connection.

    I've played the hard to get side, but she plays it back. I assume she's more humble and intelligent than I think.

    I could send a screen shot of our texting conversations if it may help. She's a solid 7.5 or 8 on a good day.

    I've tried playing the hard to get role, but it doesn't appeal to her personality seeing as she does somewhat the same. I'll tell her I'd never kiss her, and she would say she wouldn't kiss me either. I'd tell her she has to work to get me. She'd say she'd rather not. She gives IOIs and desires attention from me that I shoo away.

    Can you guys help a little?

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    Default Re: Push/Pull Problem

    2 things going on here

    Hunting rabbits with a bazooka

    You are in a battle of wits with a well armed person

    First of all you are going to deep into tactics NLP, Push Pull........ The good question is is this at the expense of remembering to mind the basics.

    Example body language,proper use of Kino, and just calling this one out FRAMING you do not have control of the frame. Push pull and NLP are useless if you are not in control of the frame.

    Now your opponent, smarter ones are easier to game than normal. But if she keeps control of the frame you are going to keep dancing to her tune. Keep the gaming on her simple and you will win, over complicate it and she will mirror it back to you.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Push/Pull Problem

    May show intent.she likes you.seems to be buying into your frame etc.even though pulls too shes still there with you.

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    Default Re: Push/Pull Problem

    Seems to me that she's mirroring your frame.
    I wish I was little bit taller
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    I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC


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