I've been trying to push pull a girl. She's british. It's a challenge because I can use negs. They don't affect her. If I push, she'll push back. If I pull, she'll pull back just a little bit.
We talk mostly through text. She seems pretty shy. I'm a college guy. She's kissed me before, her excuse is, she was drunk and she doesn't remember, but she's comfortable about it. She knows I'm attracted to her physically.
I'm thinking I have to use few NLP techniques to close it with anything. You know, appeal to her womanly emotive side that desires a little more of an emotional connection.
I've played the hard to get side, but she plays it back. I assume she's more humble and intelligent than I think.
I could send a screen shot of our texting conversations if it may help. She's a solid 7.5 or 8 on a good day.
I've tried playing the hard to get role, but it doesn't appeal to her personality seeing as she does somewhat the same. I'll tell her I'd never kiss her, and she would say she wouldn't kiss me either. I'd tell her she has to work to get me. She'd say she'd rather not. She gives IOIs and desires attention from me that I shoo away.
Can you guys help a little?