Re: Chump to PUA: The Breaking Point
Well I like what you said you have come far Wolf24. Nice to see you grow on these forums to become more mature in your PUA walk and talk. The way I see it we are all on different paths. Some people want help others just an instant "magic pill" and some are just not confident enough to apply the skills to approach enough women to learn the Game. For instance I met a 20 yr old buck at a Club. He approached me and started a convo and I immediately told him I was out picking up chicks but on a break at the moment. I took him under my wing and we pushed each other to do the approach. He was very soft and had weak game though he was a good looking guy and pretty cocky. He then settled for a HB6 right when we barely got started a couple of nights out.
But during the good little run it was interesting to be a leader and he brought his other friend along and I was running most the game doing the first approaches, hitting on 9's, getting numbers, coaching them what to say, etc but he never could create any attraction. He watched me nearly flip this broad talking about only hanging out with girls kinda weird I know. But in the end I wanted it more than him and I couldn't count on him to improve his game as he just seemed lukewarm about it. I think ultimately in the end we want people to be like us and do things the way we do things but the truth is no one shares our enthusiasm. My only competition for Clubs, Bars, and day game is guys running Natural Game to get girls. I may have seen a Arabian Knight running game on some broad I got aa since I saw him doing Kino but not sure if he was a Natural or not.
But mostly I never meet PUA's in passing and the only one I know in my area seriously approaching hot chicks is myself and other guys I observe will approach selectively but you usually only see them with 1-2 different girls a night but never like hitting up every hot chick in the place like me. I though get a lot of attention and was having a magic moment on the dancefloor with a HB9 and she tried to k-close but I chickened out due to being a noob but in the corner of my eye I could see a group of 3 guys cracking up like rooting for me amazed at what I was experiencing likely because they had perfect vantage point to watch the approach, watch the open, see us start grinding, then see her start to fall for me. Sadly I couldn't pull the trigger.
But I am working on myself to stop being such a chicken since I think I fear the approach often times. But according to the observations I have made most Natural Gamers (The Alpha Males) are going home with chicks and you see them meet "that girl you gamed" and they are like attached at the hip but you don't want to stand around staring so you walk on assuming it's on for them and over for you. So I noticed they get a bit more of success than I do. But that's why I am a PUA since I have tactics and skills to deploy to get chicks while natural gamers only have luck on their side. That's why when I try taking someone under my wing even if they are good looking they don't share my enthusiasm and not as dedicated as me. Because you won't find a person like yourself it is better to become yourself and live your own dreams not through other people. Friends serve a purpose but WINGs are kind of a drag. Like they say good to have Social Proof/Circle of Friends or Connections in the places you visit but not required since you can still pull it off and not all venues such as Day Game require a large following. But I kind of gave up on investing in Wings but I could always use a Wing to boost my own social value but not to get someone to carry the torch for me or share my enthusiasm. Essentially we can't count on others to improve themselves but just focus on ourselves and hope others one day do it on their own.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.