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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    I personally believe that a girl can give good solid advice on how to get other girls but it's so rare its like finding a unicorn.

    I actually have a close girl friend who's a senior at my college who is actually very very good with game. I met her through one of my girl friends, and we actually connected and started our friendship by talking about social dynamics and how to pick up girls (She actually used the word "Social dynamics" and it shocked me)

    She's an awesome Pivot girl, and is very good at club game and the techniques to build attraction. She's actually way better than me at Club game. She's like the perfect wing-woman and loves to help me because she finds it fun. She doesn't use PUA Jargon, but we always have talks about how to build attraction and the varying techniques to go about it, How to be a challenge, we talk about how to open girls or guys and how she would go about it. Talk about text "game" and how to send texts that spark interest, etc.
    The only difference is she tells me how she goes about "gameing" guys and her techniques as well. It's so interesting to hear how she goes about getting guys" She once told me that she was never "gameing" less than 5 guys at a time all through out college, lol, crazy.

    She's very pretty, and she's the only girl I've ever really met that knew as much as she does about how girls "really" work. She's in a relationship now so she's slowing down, but I actually value her advice when it comes to girls in some instances as much as I would the people on this site.

    I also am a firm believer in never taking advice from a woman, just felt like throwing this out there.

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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    my opinion is that all dating advice should be taken with a grain of salt.

    most of what people will tell you to do is going to be what works for them. you may not be able to pull the same kinds of stunts they do. you have to look at what works for other guys and then try it out to figure out what will work for you.

    another reality is that woman have this idea in there head about what the "ideal man" would be like and they will likely try to project that image onto any guy who asks them for dating advice.

    however girls are very good at pointing out what is un-attractive to them. it can be very useful to ask girls about guys they've dumped and why they decided to leave. if you know what not to do in general, then it will be easier to throw out any crappy ideas other guys might be telling you.

    its great to be able to ask for a woman's perspective on dating issues, just always remember what works on one girl doesn't always work on every girl. you have to be able to adapt to the girl your gaming.

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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    Even about what they find unattractive, they're not that aware.

    "There was this time, I was at a club and a guy I didn't even notice just came and asked in front of all my friends if I wanted to go back at his place, so gross! I hate when a guy is just too direct, I didn't even know his name"

    Same girl, later:

    "There was this time, I was at a club and this gorgeous guy, super confident, look me straight in the eye and offers to go back to his place. I didn't even know his name, that was so hot"

    She thinks the gross / hot part was the guy asking to go to his place, whereas it was all about confidence
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    @KYL3... Marry that girl!!! My force powers see threesome in your future lol. But seriously, you guys have rapport over gaming... That is huge. Why would she want to be with a guy who has no gaming/ doesn't know about it? I'm not one to say how good their relationship is or if you are in friendZone, but I thought I'd state the obvious haha.

    @Michalichov... Good example. I personally feel that the guy was hot and your friend was shallow. Confidence is good but maybe she found him super cute to begin with.

    @meteora... Dude your line of thinking is valid and I agree but be careful. When you start thinking that your game is different than any of the PUA you have the danger of drifting into AFC territory. As guys, we tend to get comfortable with ourselves or hold our ways of doing things higher than others (especially if we see good results). While I think natural game is good, we all need to be readjusted at times.

    Personally, I have really started to refocus on my text game. I was doing good with a lot of women and the texting flow was natural. But now I realize some are more difficult for whatever reason so back to the books. my natural text abilities are good but could be better.


    So be careful. Things may be going good for you which is great but please self examine and make sure you're not drifting.
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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    Well I think they may work if they are close friends and you shoot an idea at them. They will suck at giving you advice at what to do but if you shoot the idea and ask them how they'ed react they might give you a realistic answer.

    For example, I have a close friend I consulted the night my ex and I broke up the first time. I told her my plan (complete no contact and pictures of myself looking sexy on Facebook) and she said something along the lines of "actually I think that would work. It would make me worry that hes with other girls and I'd probably start to reconsider it when he calls me back because I'd feel relieved". Stuck with the exact strategy I described to her:complete no contact, was planning on a couple days but one day of ignoring her blowing up my phone and saying shit to piss me off and finally answering when she practically begged me to come see her did the trick and when I asked my ex how she felt about what I did (I got curious) she pretty much said the exact feelings my friend said that she would have felt.

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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    @Lockdown
    I put myself in the friendzone on purpose to build social proof and to use her as a Pivot and she's cool as F so I don't mind it one bit...Wife her? Maybe, but I'm young, (only 19 at a party university) so I have some more college days to live up first. Lol

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    Default Re: Should you take advice from women about women?

    Kyl3... It's not friendzone if you know how to game. Pivot is a more appropriate term.

    Gaming still works on friends. There's always a chance for a hookup lol :-)
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